Bible verses for children
Self-control helps protect us.
Proverbs 25:28
Like a city that is broken down and without walls is a man whose spirit is without restraint.
Proverbs 25:28 · World English Bible Classic (WEB)
In simple words
What does this verse mean?
Ancient city walls helped keep danger out. The proverb compares missing walls with a person whose reactions have no restraint. Learning to pause and choose can protect relationships and safety, while feelings themselves still deserve attention.
Before acting on a sudden urge to throw something, step back and ask for help. Practise a calming plan when you are already settled.
Talk about it
What pause could help protect you and others during a strong feeling?
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Bible context & readings +
Proverbs 25:28 closes the chapter with a picture of a city without defences. It describes the vulnerability of unrestrained conduct. Building self-control is a process of learning and support, not a reason to shame a child who struggles with regulation.
Full readings at eBible.org · World English Bible Classic. Read with an adult.A simple prayer +
God, help us practise safe responses and accept help with strong feelings. Amen.
A suggested prayer, written for this guide.