Bible verses for children
A sad heart may need quiet company.
Proverbs 25:20
As one who takes away a garment in cold weather, or vinegar on soda, so is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.
Proverbs 25:20 · World English Bible Classic (WEB)
In simple words
What does this verse mean?
Taking away a coat in the cold makes someone less comfortable. The proverb compares that with cheerful songs offered without regard for a sad person. Good intentions can miss the need; comfort begins by noticing how someone actually feels.
Instead of telling a grieving friend to cheer up, ask whether they would like company. Let quiet listening be enough for a while.
Talk about it
What could you offer someone who is not ready to feel cheerful?
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Bible context & readings +
This proverb combines striking comparisons to show a response that does not fit another person’s distress. Its warning concerns insensitive cheerfulness, not all music. The appropriate response depends on the person and the moment, as other speech proverbs also teach.
Full readings at eBible.org · World English Bible Classic. Read with an adult.A simple prayer +
God, help us offer comfort that fits another person’s need. Amen.
A suggested prayer, written for this guide.
