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Better a Dry Morsel in Quietness
Proverbs 17 is a chain of wise sayings about peace, family, speech, justice and self-control. Read together, they contrast the steadiness of understanding with the damage caused by folly, deceit and strife.
Understanding the passage
Listening in context
This passage is wisdom and dialogue, not one unfolding story. The sayings move through home life, public justice, friendship, grief, money, listening and speaking. Again and again, the chapter compares what fits wisdom with what belongs to fools, while noting that Yahweh tests hearts.
Proverbs 17:1–28Main takeaway
Proverbs 17 teaches that understanding shows itself in peace, honest speech, fair judgement, loyal love and restrained words.
Look closely at the words
Open a card to explore the full explanation and its Bible references.
01Peace and character matter more than appearanceThe chapter begins by preferring a dry morsel with quietness over feasting with strife. Wisdom can raise a servant above a shameful son, and Yahweh tests hearts as metal is tested by fire.
Explanation
The chapter begins by preferring a dry morsel with quietness over feasting with strife. Wisdom can raise a servant above a shameful son, and Yahweh tests hearts as metal is tested by fire. The sayings then warn that wicked people listen to wicked speech, and mocking the poor reproaches their Maker.
02Family honour, fitting speech and handling offenceChildren and parents are described as each other’s honour. Excellent speech does not suit a fool, and lying lips do not suit a prince.
Explanation
Children and parents are described as each other’s honour. Excellent speech does not suit a fool, and lying lips do not suit a prince. A bribe looks valuable to the giver, but repeating a matter breaks friendships, while covering an offence promotes love. A wise person also receives rebuke deeply.
03Folly and strife bring dangerThe next sayings stack warnings together. Rebellion brings a cruel messenger. A fool in folly is more dangerous than a bear robbed of her cubs.
Explanation
The next sayings stack warnings together. Rebellion brings a cruel messenger. A fool in folly is more dangerous than a bear robbed of her cubs. Rewarding evil for good brings continuing evil. Since strife starts like a breached dam, contention should be stopped early. Both twisting justice directions are an abomination to Yahweh.
04Friendship, choices and inward directionMoney cannot buy wisdom for a fool without understanding. A true friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
Explanation
Money cannot buy wisdom for a fool without understanding. A true friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Empty-headed guarantees are warned against. Loving disobedience means loving strife, and a deceitful tongue falls into trouble. Wisdom stays before the understanding person, while a fool’s eyes wander.
05Grief, justice and restrained speechThe chapter closes with family grief over foolish children, then says, 'A cheerful heart makes good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.'
Explanation
The chapter closes with family grief over foolish children, then says, 'A cheerful heart makes good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.' Secret bribes pervert justice, and punishing the righteous is not good. Knowledge shows in sparing words and an even temper. Even a silent fool may seem wise.
Questions to explore
Pause, look back at the verses and talk together.
01Why does the chapter begin by praising a dry morsel with quietness?
Notice the contrast between quietness and strife, not between rich and poor food.
02How do these sayings connect friendship and speech?
Look at covering an offence, repeating a matter, and a friend loving at all times.
03Which verses show that justice can be twisted, and which show what wisdom looks like instead?
Compare the bribe and judgement sayings with the verses about understanding and restrained words.
Read the Bible passage
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Proverbs 17:1–28
1Better is a dry morsel with quietness, than a house full of feasting with strife.
2A servant who deals wisely will rule over a son who causes shame, and shall have a part in the inheritance among the brothers.
3The refining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold, but Yahweh tests the hearts.
4An evildoer heeds wicked lips. A liar gives ear to a mischievous tongue.
5Whoever mocks the poor reproaches his Maker. He who is glad at calamity shall not be unpunished.
6Children’s children are the crown of old men; the glory of children is their parents.
7Excellent speech isn’t fitting for a fool, much less do lying lips fit a prince.
8A bribe is a precious stone in the eyes of him who gives it; wherever he turns, he prospers.
9He who covers an offense promotes love; but he who repeats a matter separates best friends.
10A rebuke enters deeper into one who has understanding than a hundred lashes into a fool.
11An evil man seeks only rebellion; therefore a cruel messenger shall be sent against him.
12Let a bear robbed of her cubs meet a man, rather than a fool in his folly.
13Whoever rewards evil for good, evil shall not depart from his house.
14The beginning of strife is like breaching a dam, therefore stop contention before quarreling breaks out.
15He who justifies the wicked, and he who condemns the righteous, both of them alike are an abomination to Yahweh.
16Why is there money in the hand of a fool to buy wisdom, since he has no understanding?
17A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity.
18A man void of understanding strikes hands, and becomes collateral in the presence of his neighbor.
19He who loves disobedience loves strife. One who builds a high gate seeks destruction.
20One who has a perverse heart doesn’t find prosperity, and one who has a deceitful tongue falls into trouble.
21He who becomes the father of a fool grieves. The father of a fool has no joy.
22A cheerful heart makes good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.
23A wicked man receives a bribe in secret, to pervert the ways of justice.
24Wisdom is before the face of one who has understanding, but the eyes of a fool wander to the ends of the earth.
25A foolish son brings grief to his father, and bitterness to her who bore him.
26Also to punish the righteous is not good, nor to flog officials for their integrity.
27He who spares his words has knowledge. He who is even tempered is a man of understanding.
28Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is counted wise. When he shuts his lips, he is thought to be discerning.