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Wives and Husbands
This passage gives direct instruction to wives and husbands within marriage. It focuses on conduct, inner character, honour, and prayer, and it addresses both wife and husband as people who live before God.
Understanding the passage
The setting of these words
These verses speak first to wives and then to husbands. The passage says a wife’s behaviour may affect a husband who does not obey the word, and it tells husbands to live with knowledge and honour toward their wives. The passage remains instruction rather than narrative.
1 Peter 3:1–7Main takeaway
This passage teaches that marriage should be marked by God-valued character, honour, and thoughtful conduct before him.
Follow the letter’s teaching
Open a card to explore the full explanation and its Bible references.
01Conduct that may win without wordsThis passage tells wives to be in subjection to their own husbands, including husbands who do not obey the Word.
Explanation
This passage tells wives to be in subjection to their own husbands, including husbands who do not obey the Word. It says such husbands may be won without a word by what they observe. The focus is on pure behaviour in fear, showing that conduct can speak strongly.
02Beauty that begins in the heartThe writer contrasts outward adornment, such as braided hair, gold ornaments, and fine clothing, with another kind of beauty.
Explanation
The writer contrasts outward adornment, such as braided hair, gold ornaments, and fine clothing, with another kind of beauty. The passage points to the hidden person of the heart and describes a gentle and quiet spirit as incorruptible adornment. It says this inner beauty is very precious in God’s sight.
03Holy women who hoped in GodThe passage says holy women of the past adorned themselves in this way while hoping in God and being in subjection to their own husbands.
Explanation
The passage says holy women of the past adorned themselves in this way while hoping in God and being in subjection to their own husbands. Sarah is named as an example. The text says readers are her children if they do well and are not put in fear by any terror.
04Husbands and honour in shared graceThe passage then addresses husbands. It tells them to live with their wives according to knowledge and to give honour to the woman as the weaker vessel.
Explanation
The passage then addresses husbands. It tells them to live with their wives according to knowledge and to give honour to the woman as the weaker vessel. Verse 7 also says wives are joint heirs of the grace of life, so this phrase stands beside shared inheritance. The verse links a husband’s conduct with unhindered prayers.
Questions to explore
Pause, look back at the verses and talk together.
01According to verses 1 and 2, what does this passage say may influence a husband who does not obey the Word?
Look for the contrast between spoken words and what is seen in a wife’s pure behaviour in fear.
02What kind of beauty does this passage say is very precious in God’s sight?
Compare the outward examples in verse 3 with the inward description in verse 4.
03What two responsibilities does verse 7 give husbands, and what reason does it attach to them?
Notice the instructions to live according to knowledge and give honour, then read the end of the verse about prayers.
Read the Bible passage
World English Bible ClassicScripture quotation · Public domain
1 Peter 3:1–7
1In the same way, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, so that, even if any don’t obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word,
2seeing your pure behavior in fear.
3Let your beauty come not from the outward adorning of braiding your hair, and of wearing gold ornaments or of putting on fine clothing,
4but from the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in God’s sight.
5For this is how in the past the holy women who hoped in God also adorned themselves, being in subjection to their own husbands.
6So Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose children you now are if you do well and are not put in fear by any terror.
7You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman as to the weaker vessel, as also being joint heirs of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.