Single lesson
Absalom Returns Home
2 Samuel 14:1–33
This lesson helps children follow the account of Absalom returning, notice each person’s choices, and observe that being brought back to Jerusalem did not immediately restore full access to the king.
Before you teach
Joab sees that the king’s heart is toward Absalom and arranges for a wise woman from Tekoa to speak. Her case leads the king to bring Absalom back from Geshur. Even so, Absalom lives in Jerusalem for two years without seeing the king, until further action brings a final meeting.
Students will sequence the chapter, identify key choices by Joab, the woman, the king and Absalom, and describe the outcomes named in the passage.
Welcome: Who starts the action?
5 minIntroduce the story and ask children to listen for the first person who moves the account forward. Read verses 1 to 3. Explain that Joab notices the king’s heart toward Absalom, brings a wise woman from Tekoa, and tells her what to say.
2 Samuel 14:1, 2 Samuel 14:2, 2 Samuel 14:3
Read and explain: The woman’s case
8 minRead verses 4 to 14 in short parts. The woman tells of two sons, one dead and one in danger. The king promises protection. Then she turns the matter toward the king’s own banished one. Note the picture in verse 14 of water spilled on the ground.
2 Samuel 14:4, 2 Samuel 14:7, 2 Samuel 14:10, 2 Samuel 14:11, 2 Samuel 14:13, 2 Samuel 14:14
Discuss: Back in Jerusalem, yet still apart
6 minRead verses 18 to 28. The king recognises that Joab is behind the plan and grants the request. Absalom is brought back to Jerusalem, but he must go to his own house and not see the king’s face. The passage also describes Absalom’s appearance, hair, and children.
2 Samuel 14:18, 2 Samuel 14:19, 2 Samuel 14:21, 2 Samuel 14:23, 2 Samuel 14:24, 2 Samuel 14:25, 2 Samuel 14:27, 2 Samuel 14:28
Make and respond: Sequence the turning points
7 minGive children simple event cards to place in order: Joab’s plan, the woman speaks, the king discovers Joab’s part, Absalom returns, Absalom waits, the field is burned, Absalom meets the king. As they sort, ask what outcome each choice brings in the chapter.
2 Samuel 14:3, 2 Samuel 14:19, 2 Samuel 14:24, 2 Samuel 14:28, 2 Samuel 14:30, 2 Samuel 14:33
Closing: The final meeting
4 minRead verses 29 to 33. Absalom sends for Joab twice, then has Joab’s field set on fire. Joab comes, speaks to the king, and Absalom is called in. The chapter ends with Absalom bowing before the king and the king kissing Absalom.
2 Samuel 14:29, 2 Samuel 14:30, 2 Samuel 14:31, 2 Samuel 14:32, 2 Samuel 14:33
Questions to explore
How did Joab begin the process of bringing Absalom back?
Look for what Joab noticed, whom he brought from Tekoa, and how he prepared her words.
2 Samuel 14:1, 2 Samuel 14:2, 2 Samuel 14:3
What shows that Absalom’s return was incomplete at first?
Find the verses where he returns to Jerusalem but is kept from seeing the king, and note how long that lasts.
2 Samuel 14:24, 2 Samuel 14:28
What finally led to Absalom coming before the king?
Trace the steps from Absalom sending for Joab, to the burning of the field, to Joab speaking with the king.
2 Samuel 14:29, 2 Samuel 14:30, 2 Samuel 14:31, 2 Samuel 14:33
Make, think or respond
Absalom Returns Sequence Cards
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or markers
- Bible
- scissors
Try it together
- Make seven cards with short labels or drawings for the main events in the chapter.
- Mix the cards and have children work together to place them in order from the Bible reading.
- Invite children to read one matching verse for each card.
- Ask which cards show protection, delay, damage, or meeting with the king.
This activity helps children trace the chapter from Joab’s plan to Absalom’s final appearance before the king in 2 Samuel 14:33.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, prepare the cards before the lesson and use simple drawings with short labels.
- For older or confident children, ask them to name the person making the key choice on each card and the outcome that follows.
An optional closing prayer
You may pray: “God, please help us listen carefully to your word and grow in wisdom as we learn from this passage.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
2 Samuel 14
1 Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king’s heart was toward Absalom.
2 Joab sent to Tekoa and brought a wise woman from there, and said to her, “Please act like a mourner, and put on mourning clothing, please, and don’t anoint yourself with oil; but be as a woman who has mourned a long time for the dead.
3 Go in to the king and speak like this to him.” So Joab put the words in her mouth.
4 When the woman of Tekoa spoke to the king, she fell on her face to the ground, showed respect, and said, “Help, O king!”
5 The king said to her, “What ails you?” She answered, “Truly I am a widow, and my husband is dead.
6 Your servant had two sons; and they both fought together in the field, and there was no one to part them, but the one struck the other and killed him.
7 Behold, the whole family has risen against your servant, and they say, ‘Deliver him who struck his brother, that we may kill him for the life of his brother whom he killed, and so destroy the heir also.’ Thus they would quench my coal which is left, and would leave to my husband neither name nor remainder on the surface of the earth.”
8 The king said to the woman, “Go to your house, and I will give a command concerning you.”
9 The woman of Tekoa said to the king, “My lord, O king, may the iniquity be on me, and on my father’s house; and may the king and his throne be guiltless.”
10 The king said, “Whoever says anything to you, bring him to me, and he will not bother you any more.”
11 Then she said, “Please let the king remember Yahweh your God, that the avenger of blood destroy not any more, lest they destroy my son.” He said, “As Yahweh lives, not one hair of your son shall fall to the earth.”
12 Then the woman said, “Please let your servant speak a word to my lord the king.” He said, “Say on.”
13 The woman said, “Why then have you devised such a thing against the people of God? For in speaking this word the king is as one who is guilty, in that the king does not bring home again his banished one.
14 For we must die, and are like water spilled on the ground, which can’t be gathered up again; neither does God take away life, but devises means, that he who is banished not be an outcast from him.
15 Now therefore, seeing that I have come to speak this word to my lord the king, it is because the people have made me afraid. Your servant said, ‘I will now speak to the king; it may be that the king will perform the request of his servant.’
16 For the king will hear, to deliver his servant out of the hand of the man who would destroy me and my son together out of the inheritance of God.
17 Then your servant said, ‘Please let the word of my lord the king bring rest; for as an angel of God, so is my lord the king to discern good and bad. May Yahweh, your God, be with you.’ ”
18 Then the king answered the woman, “Please don’t hide anything from me that I ask you.” The woman said, “Let my lord the king now speak.”
19 The king said, “Is the hand of Joab with you in all this?” The woman answered, “As your soul lives, my lord the king, no one can turn to the right hand or to the left from anything that my lord the king has spoken; for your servant Joab urged me, and he put all these words in the mouth of your servant.
20 Your servant Joab has done this thing to change the face of the matter. My lord is wise, according to the wisdom of an angel of God, to know all things that are on the earth.”
21 The king said to Joab, “Behold now, I have granted this thing. Go therefore, and bring the young man Absalom back.”
22 Joab fell to the ground on his face, showed respect, and blessed the king. Joab said, “Today your servant knows that I have found favor in your sight, my lord, O king, in that the king has performed the request of his servant.”
23 So Joab arose and went to Geshur, and brought Absalom to Jerusalem.
24 The king said, “Let him return to his own house, but let him not see my face.” So Absalom returned to his own house, and didn’t see the king’s face.
25 Now in all Israel there was no one to be so much praised as Absalom for his beauty. From the sole of his foot even to the crown of his head there was no defect in him.
26 When he cut the hair of his head (now it was at every year’s end that he cut it; because it was heavy on him, therefore he cut it), he weighed the hair of his head at two hundred shekels, after the king’s weight.
27 Three sons were born to Absalom, and one daughter, whose name was Tamar. She was a woman with a beautiful face.
28 Absalom lived two full years in Jerusalem, and he didn’t see the king’s face.
29 Then Absalom sent for Joab, to send him to the king, but he would not come to him. Then he sent again a second time, but he would not come.
30 Therefore he said to his servants, “Behold, Joab’s field is near mine, and he has barley there. Go and set it on fire.” So Absalom’s servants set the field on fire.
31 Then Joab arose and came to Absalom to his house, and said to him, “Why have your servants set my field on fire?”
32 Absalom answered Joab, “Behold, I sent to you, saying, ‘Come here, that I may send you to the king, to say, “Why have I come from Geshur? It would be better for me to be there still. Now therefore, let me see the king’s face; and if there is iniquity in me, let him kill me.” ’ ”
33 So Joab came to the king and told him; and when he had called for Absalom, he came to the king and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king; and the king kissed Absalom.
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