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Ephesians 4: Unity in the Body
Ephesians 4:1–16; Ephesians 4:17–32
Ephesians 4 teaches that believers share one life together in Christ and are called to live differently because of that. This lesson helps children see both the unity of the body and the everyday changes named in the passage.
Before you teach
This passage begins with a call to walk worthily, with humility, patience and peace, because there is one body, one Spirit, one Lord and one God and Father. It then explains that Christ gives gifts for building up the body of Christ. After that, the passage contrasts a former way of life with a renewed life marked by truth, helpful words, kindness and forgiveness.
Students will identify two main teachings in Ephesians 4 and give one practical example of building unity and one example of living the new life described here.
Welcome: One body, one calling
5 minIntroduce the lesson by saying this passage has two linked parts. First, believers are called to keep unity in peace because the passage repeats the word one many times. Second, believers are told to put away an old way of life and put on a new one. Ask children to listen for words like one, build, put away and kind.
Ephesians 4:3, Ephesians 4:4, Ephesians 4:5, Ephesians 4:6, Ephesians 4:22, Ephesians 4:24, Ephesians 4:32
Read and explain: Growing as one body
8 minRead Ephesians 4:1-16 aloud. Explain that walking worthily includes humility, patience and bearing with one another in love. Unity is something believers are eager to keep. Christ gives gifts to people, and those gifts serve the building up of the body of Christ. The passage also says to speak truth in love and grow up into Christ the head.
Ephesians 4:1, Ephesians 4:2, Ephesians 4:3, Ephesians 4:7, Ephesians 4:11, Ephesians 4:12, Ephesians 4:15, Ephesians 4:16
Discuss: Put away the old way
6 minRead Ephesians 4:17-24. Show the contrast in the passage. The writer says no longer walk in the old way. Instead, put away the former way of life, be renewed in the spirit of your mind, and put on the new man. This new life is described as created in righteousness and holiness of truth.
Ephesians 4:17, Ephesians 4:20, Ephesians 4:21, Ephesians 4:22, Ephesians 4:23, Ephesians 4:24
Make and respond: Reminder card
7 minInvite each child to choose one verse or short phrase from the passage for a reminder card. They may choose words about truth, building others up, kindness or forgiveness. After making the card, ask each child to share one realistic place where they could remember this teaching during the week.
Ephesians 4:25, Ephesians 4:29, Ephesians 4:31, Ephesians 4:32
Closing: Build up in love
4 minReview the two parts of the passage. Believers are one body and are called to keep unity in peace. Christ gives gifts, and the body grows as each part does its work. The passage also names everyday choices about truth, speech, kindness and forgiveness. Finish by asking for one example from each part.
Ephesians 4:3, Ephesians 4:7, Ephesians 4:11, Ephesians 4:12, Ephesians 4:16, Ephesians 4:25, Ephesians 4:29, Ephesians 4:32
Questions to explore
What repeated word in Ephesians 4:4-6 shows how strongly the passage stresses unity?
Look for the word one and name each thing the passage says is one.
Ephesians 4:4, Ephesians 4:5, Ephesians 4:6
According to Ephesians 4:11-16, why are gifts given to different people?
Find the purposes in the text, including serving, building up the body of Christ, unity, and growth into Christ.
Ephesians 4:11, Ephesians 4:12, Ephesians 4:13, Ephesians 4:15, Ephesians 4:16
Which commands in Ephesians 4:25-32 show what the new life looks like in relationships?
List the actions named in the passage about truth, anger, work, speech, kindness and forgiveness.
Ephesians 4:25, Ephesians 4:26, Ephesians 4:28, Ephesians 4:29, Ephesians 4:31, Ephesians 4:32
Make, think or respond
Key Verse Reminder Card
What you’ll need
- paper or card
- pencils
- coloured pens or crayons
- Bible
Try it together
- Read Ephesians 4:25, Ephesians 4:29 and Ephesians 4:32, and let each child choose one verse or short phrase.
- Write the chosen words clearly on a small piece of paper or card.
- Add a simple drawing or symbol that matches the words.
- On the back, write one place where the child wants to remember this teaching, such as home or school.
- Invite children to show their card and explain how it connects to the passage.
The card helps children remember that this passage calls believers to keep unity and to live the new life through truthful, helpful and kind actions.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, offer two short choices such as 'speak truth' or 'be kind' and let them draw a matching picture.
- For older or more confident children, ask them to explain in one or two sentences how Ephesians 4:1-16 connects with Ephesians 4:17-32.
An optional closing prayer
You could pray: 'Father, thank you for calling your people into one body. Please help us speak truth in love, build others up, and be kind and forgiving. Amen.'
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Ephesians 4
1 I therefore, the prisoner in the Lord, beg you to walk worthily of the calling with which you were called,
2 with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
3 being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
4 There is one body and one Spirit, even as you also were called in one hope of your calling,
5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism,
6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in us all.
7 But to each one of us, the grace was given according to the measure of the gift of Christ.
8 Therefore he says, “When he ascended on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts to people.”
9 Now this, “He ascended”, what is it but that he also first descended into the lower parts of the earth?
10 He who descended is the one who also ascended far above all the heavens, that he might fill all things.
11 He gave some to be apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, shepherds and teachers;
12 for the perfecting of the saints, to the work of serving, to the building up of the body of Christ,
13 until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a full grown man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ,
14 that we may no longer be children, tossed back and forth and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in craftiness, after the wiles of error;
15 but speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him who is the head, Christ,
16 from whom all the body, being fitted and knit together through that which every joint supplies, according to the working in measure of each individual part, makes the body increase to the building up of itself in love.
17 This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that you no longer walk as the rest of the Gentiles also walk, in the futility of their mind,
18 being darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the hardening of their hearts.
19 They, having become callous, gave themselves up to lust, to work all uncleanness with greediness.
20 But you didn’t learn Christ that way,
21 if indeed you heard him and were taught in him, even as truth is in Jesus:
22 that you put away, as concerning your former way of life, the old man that grows corrupt after the lusts of deceit,
23 and that you be renewed in the spirit of your mind,
24 and put on the new man, who in the likeness of God has been created in righteousness and holiness of truth.
25 Therefore, putting away falsehood, speak truth each one with his neighbor, for we are members of one another.
26 “Be angry, and don’t sin.” Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath,
27 and don’t give place to the devil.
28 Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, producing with his hands something that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need.
29 Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear.
30 Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.
31 Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice.
32 And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.
