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Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife
Sirach 26:13–27 (source bridge 19–27)
This wisdom passage from Sirach, a book in the Catholic additional books, praises qualities seen in a wife. It joins inner qualities such as knowledge and self-control with poetic descriptions of beauty, using comparisons to show their worth.
Before you teach
Sirach 26:13–18 is wisdom poetry, not a story. In this part of Sirach, the speaker gives sayings about a wife and uses similes to describe her value. Because Sirach belongs to the Catholic additional books, this passage should be read as wisdom teaching from that collection, tracing these verses in order.
Explain the central teaching of Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife, using two details from the reading. This passage praises a wife by honouring grace, knowledge, instruction, modesty, self-control, beauty, and steadfastness together.
Welcome: Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife
5 minIntroduce “Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife” and locate Sirach 26:13–27 (source bridge 19–27). This passage praises a wife by honouring grace, knowledge, instruction, modesty, self-control, beauty, and steadfastness together. Invite each learner to name a detail or question they will listen for.
Sirach 26:13, Sirach 26:16, Sirach 26:18
Read and explain the passage
12 minThe passage opens by naming two blessings connected with a wife. Her grace delights her husband, and her knowledge strengthens his bones. The image of strengthened bones points to deep support and vigour. The verse directly praises grace and knowledge as gifts that bring delight and strength.
The poem then turns to similes. The beauty of a good wife in her well-organised home is like the sun rising in the highest places of the Lord. Her face on a well-proportioned body is like a lamp on a holy lampstand. These images connect beauty with brightness, order, and fitting form.
The final comparison is more bodily. Beautiful feet and breasts are likened to golden pillars on silver bases. Yet the verse does not speak of appearance by itself. It adds that the woman is steadfast, so the closing image joins physical beauty with firmness and constancy.
Read the selected verses together, pausing at “Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife”. Use the source reading below and check the explanation against the words of the passage.
Sirach 26:13, Sirach 26:16, Sirach 26:17, Sirach 26:18
Discuss the details and their meaning
8 minUse the three questions below. Begin with “What two benefits are named first, and how are they described?” and allow time to find the supporting verses. This passage praises a wife by honouring grace, knowledge, instruction, modesty, self-control, beauty, and steadfastness together. Ask learners to explain which details support their answer and to identify a question they would like to explore further.
Sirach 26:13, Sirach 26:14, Sirach 26:15, Sirach 26:16, Sirach 26:17, Sirach 26:18
Make and respond: Wisdom comparison cards
12 minWork on “Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife: Wisdom comparison cards”. Follow the materials and steps below, using “Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife” as reading headings. Each learner should include at least two accurate details and their verse references. Share one observation from the finished sheet and explain how it connects with the central teaching.
Sirach 26:13, Sirach 26:16, Sirach 26:18
Closing: return to Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife
3 minRevisit Sirach 26:13–27 (source bridge 19–27). Invite a learner to summarise what the group has learned about Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife and another to support the summary with a verse. Give learners a moment to complete their response sheet. They can share a question or, if appropriate for the group, join the optional prayer.
Sirach 26:13, Sirach 26:16, Sirach 26:18
Questions to explore
What two benefits are named first, and how are they described?
Read the opening verse closely and note what grace does and what knowledge does.
Sirach 26:13
Which qualities are described as especially valuable, and what words show that value?
Look for the phrases “gift of the Lord”, “nothing worth so much”, “grace upon grace”, and “cannot be weighed”.
Sirach 26:14, Sirach 26:15
How do the poem’s comparisons help describe beauty in these verses?
List the images in order and connect each one to the feature or setting it describes.
Sirach 26:16, Sirach 26:17, Sirach 26:18
Make, think or respond
Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife: Wisdom comparison cards
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or pens
- a Bible or the source reading on this page
Try it together
- Fold a sheet into three panels or draw three columns. Label them “What the passage commends”, “What it warns against”, “The reason or outcome stated”.
- Read Sirach 26:13–27 (source bridge 19–27). Use “Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife” as your reading headings and add a short quotation or detail with its verse reference to each panel.
- Compare your notes with a partner. Check that every quotation is accurate and every conclusion has support in the passage.
- Write a proposed everyday example beside one teaching. Label it as your example and explain which words in the text guided it.
The finished sheet keeps the details of Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife connected to their Bible references and gives the group a way to explain what they noticed.
Adapt for your group
- For learners who need more support, prepare the reading headings “Grace, self-control, and beauty are praised in a wife” and let them match short quotations to the correct heading.
- For confident readers, compare two sections of Sirach 26:13–27 (source bridge 19–27). Ask for a written explanation with two supporting references and one question that the text leaves open.
An optional closing prayer
“God, help us listen carefully as we read Sirach 26:13–27 (source bridge 19–27). Help us understand what we have read, ask thoughtful questions and respond with care for others. Amen.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Sirach 26
13 The grace of a wife will delight her husband. Her knowledge will strengthen his bones.
14 A silent woman is a gift of the Lord. There is nothing worth so much as a well-instructed soul.
15 A modest woman is grace upon grace. There are no scales that can weigh the value of a self-controlled soul.
16 As the sun when it arises in the highest places of the Lord, so is the beauty of a good wife in her well-organized home.
17 As the lamp that shines upon the holy lampstand, so is the beauty of the face on a well-proportioned body.
18 As the golden pillars are upon a base of silver, so are beautiful feet with the breasts of one who is steadfast.
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.
Source passages
Some verse numbers are represented by textual notes in World English Bible Classic. The reading below follows the text printed in the main passage.