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Jacob Leaves Laban

Genesis 31:1–55

Jacob leaves Laban after hearing trouble around him and after God tells him to return home. In this lesson, children trace the main steps of the story and notice how fear, deception, hard work and God’s care appear in the passage.

6–10 years30 minutes

Before you teach

In Genesis 31:1–55, Jacob sees that Laban’s attitude has changed, and God tells Jacob to return to his own land. Jacob explains the situation to Rachel and Leah, the family leaves, Laban pursues them, and the chapter ends with a covenant marked by stones and a shared meal.

Learning aim

Students will be able to put five main parts of Genesis 31:1–55 in order and explain two ways the passage shows God watching over Jacob.

1

Welcome: Spot the change

4 min

Show children five simple board words: heard, told, fled, searched, promised. Ask them to listen for these ideas in the story. Explain that Jacob notices Laban’s family speaking against him, sees Laban’s changed face, and hears God tell him to return. This prepares children to follow the account in order.

Genesis 31:1, Genesis 31:2, Genesis 31:3

2

Read and explain: Why Jacob left

8 min

Read Genesis 31:1–16 in small parts. Explain that Jacob tells Rachel and Leah he has worked hard, Laban changed his wages, and God had seen what Laban was doing. Point out that Rachel and Leah agree that Jacob should do what God has said. Emphasise what the text says about God’s direction and care.

Genesis 31:6, Genesis 31:7, Genesis 31:12, Genesis 31:13, Genesis 31:16

3

Discuss: The journey and the search

6 min

Read Genesis 31:17–35. Help children sequence the departure, Laban’s pursuit, God’s warning dream to Laban, and the search for the teraphim. Explain simply that teraphim were Laban’s household gods in the story. Note that Jacob left secretly because he was afraid Laban might take his daughters by force.

Genesis 31:19, Genesis 31:20, Genesis 31:24, Genesis 31:31, Genesis 31:35

4

Make and respond: Stone heap sequence

8 min

Children make five sequence cards or draw five boxes: God tells Jacob to return, Jacob speaks to Rachel and Leah, the family flees, Laban catches up, Jacob and Laban make a covenant. As they work, ask them to add one short caption from the story. This keeps the response anchored to the events in order.

Genesis 31:3, Genesis 31:4, Genesis 31:21, Genesis 31:25, Genesis 31:44

5

Closing: The witness heap

4 min

Read the ending of the chapter. Explain that Jacob and Laban set up a stone pillar and heap as a witness between them. The place receives names in the story, they speak of God as witness and judge, share a meal, and then Laban leaves. Review the lesson goal by asking children to retell the five parts in order.

Genesis 31:45, Genesis 31:46, Genesis 31:47, Genesis 31:48, Genesis 31:49, Genesis 31:52, Genesis 31:53, Genesis 31:54, Genesis 31:55

Questions to explore

Why did Jacob decide it was time to leave Laban?

Look for both the change in Laban’s household and the clear command God gave Jacob to return.

Genesis 31:1, Genesis 31:2, Genesis 31:3

What reasons did Jacob give Rachel and Leah for trusting God’s direction?

Listen for Jacob’s words about his hard service, Laban changing his wages, and God seeing what Laban was doing.

Genesis 31:6, Genesis 31:7, Genesis 31:12, Genesis 31:13

What did the heap and pillar mean at the end of the chapter?

Find the verses where Laban and Jacob say the stones are a witness and where they speak about not crossing for harm.

Genesis 31:44, Genesis 31:48, Genesis 31:52, Genesis 31:53

Make, think or respond

Five-Part Story Stones

What you’ll need

  • 5 small stones or pieces of cardboard
  • markers
  • paper
  • Bible

Try it together

  1. Read the five key moments together from the passage.
  2. Give each child five stones or card pieces and help them label or draw one moment on each.
  3. Place the stones in order and retell the chapter using the pictures or labels.
  4. Pair children to practise telling the story in sequence using their stones.

The stone pieces help children remember the order of the events, and they connect especially well with the heap of stones and pillar at the end of the chapter.

Adapt for your group

  • For younger children, prepare the five story moments as spoken prompts and let them draw simple symbols instead of writing captions.
  • For older children, ask them to add the verse reference to each sequence piece and explain one choice and one outcome from the account.

An optional closing prayer

You may pray: “God, thank you that you saw Jacob’s trouble and guided him. Please help us listen to your words, act honestly, and remember that you see what people do.”

Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic

Genesis 31

1 Jacob heard Laban’s sons’ words, saying, “Jacob has taken away all that was our father’s. He has obtained all this wealth from that which was our father’s.”

2 Jacob saw the expression on Laban’s face, and, behold, it was not toward him as before.

3 Yahweh said to Jacob, “Return to the land of your fathers, and to your relatives, and I will be with you.”

4 Jacob sent and called Rachel and Leah to the field to his flock,

5 and said to them, “I see the expression on your father’s face, that it is not toward me as before; but the God of my father has been with me.

6 You know that I have served your father with all of my strength.

7 Your father has deceived me, and changed my wages ten times, but God didn’t allow him to hurt me.

8 If he said, ‘The speckled will be your wages,’ then all the flock bore speckled. If he said, ‘The streaked will be your wages,’ then all the flock bore streaked.

9 Thus God has taken away your father’s livestock, and given them to me.

10 During mating season, I lifted up my eyes, and saw in a dream, and behold, the male goats which leaped on the flock were streaked, speckled, and grizzled.

11 The angel of God said to me in the dream, ‘Jacob,’ and I said, ‘Here I am.’

12 He said, ‘Now lift up your eyes, and behold, all the male goats which leap on the flock are streaked, speckled, and grizzled, for I have seen all that Laban does to you.

13 I am the God of Bethel, where you anointed a pillar, where you vowed a vow to me. Now arise, get out from this land, and return to the land of your birth.’ ”

14 Rachel and Leah answered him, “Is there yet any portion or inheritance for us in our father’s house?

15 Aren’t we considered as foreigners by him? For he has sold us, and has also used up our money.

16 For all the riches which God has taken away from our father are ours and our children’s. Now then, whatever God has said to you, do.”

17 Then Jacob rose up, and set his sons and his wives on the camels,

18 and he took away all his livestock, and all his possessions which he had gathered, including the livestock which he had gained in Paddan Aram, to go to Isaac his father, to the land of Canaan.

19 Now Laban had gone to shear his sheep; and Rachel stole the teraphim that were her father’s.

20 Jacob deceived Laban the Syrian, in that he didn’t tell him that he was running away.

21 So he fled with all that he had. He rose up, passed over the River, and set his face toward the mountain of Gilead.

22 Laban was told on the third day that Jacob had fled.

23 He took his relatives with him, and pursued him seven days’ journey. He overtook him in the mountain of Gilead.

24 God came to Laban the Syrian in a dream of the night, and said to him, “Be careful that you don’t speak to Jacob either good or bad.”

25 Laban caught up with Jacob. Now Jacob had pitched his tent in the mountain, and Laban with his relatives encamped in the mountain of Gilead.

26 Laban said to Jacob, “What have you done, that you have deceived me, and carried away my daughters like captives of the sword?

27 Why did you flee secretly, and deceive me, and didn’t tell me, that I might have sent you away with mirth and with songs, with tambourine and with harp;

28 and didn’t allow me to kiss my sons and my daughters? Now you have done foolishly.

29 It is in the power of my hand to hurt you, but the God of your father spoke to me last night, saying, ‘Be careful that you don’t speak to Jacob either good or bad.’

30 Now, you want to be gone, because you greatly longed for your father’s house, but why have you stolen my gods?”

31 Jacob answered Laban, “Because I was afraid, for I said, ‘Lest you should take your daughters from me by force.’

32 Anyone you find your gods with shall not live. Before our relatives, discern what is yours with me, and take it.” For Jacob didn’t know that Rachel had stolen them.

33 Laban went into Jacob’s tent, into Leah’s tent, and into the tent of the two female servants; but he didn’t find them. He went out of Leah’s tent, and entered into Rachel’s tent.

34 Now Rachel had taken the teraphim, put them in the camel’s saddle, and sat on them. Laban felt around all the tent, but didn’t find them.

35 She said to her father, “Don’t let my lord be angry that I can’t rise up before you; for I’m having my period.” He searched, but didn’t find the teraphim.

36 Jacob was angry, and argued with Laban. Jacob answered Laban, “What is my trespass? What is my sin, that you have hotly pursued me?

37 Now that you have felt around in all my stuff, what have you found of all your household stuff? Set it here before my relatives and your relatives, that they may judge between us two.

38 “These twenty years I have been with you. Your ewes and your female goats have not cast their young, and I haven’t eaten the rams of your flocks.

39 That which was torn of animals, I didn’t bring to you. I bore its loss. Of my hand you required it, whether stolen by day or stolen by night.

40 This was my situation: in the day the drought consumed me, and the frost by night; and my sleep fled from my eyes.

41 These twenty years I have been in your house. I served you fourteen years for your two daughters, and six years for your flock, and you have changed my wages ten times.

42 Unless the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, had been with me, surely now you would have sent me away empty. God has seen my affliction and the labor of my hands, and rebuked you last night.”

43 Laban answered Jacob, “The daughters are my daughters, the children are my children, the flocks are my flocks, and all that you see is mine! What can I do today to these my daughters, or to their children whom they have borne?

44 Now come, let’s make a covenant, you and I. Let it be for a witness between me and you.”

45 Jacob took a stone, and set it up for a pillar.

46 Jacob said to his relatives, “Gather stones.” They took stones, and made a heap. They ate there by the heap.

47 Laban called it Jegar Sahadutha, but Jacob called it Galeed.

48 Laban said, “This heap is witness between me and you today.” Therefore it was named Galeed

49 and Mizpah, for he said, “Yahweh watch between me and you, when we are absent one from another.

50 If you afflict my daughters, or if you take wives in addition to my daughters, no man is with us; behold, God is witness between me and you.”

51 Laban said to Jacob, “See this heap, and see the pillar, which I have set between me and you.

52 May this heap be a witness, and the pillar be a witness, that I will not pass over this heap to you, and that you will not pass over this heap and this pillar to me, for harm.

53 The God of Abraham, and the God of Nahor, the God of their father, judge between us.” Then Jacob swore by the fear of his father, Isaac.

54 Jacob offered a sacrifice in the mountain, and called his relatives to eat bread. They ate bread, and stayed all night in the mountain.

55 Early in the morning, Laban rose up, and kissed his sons and his daughters, and blessed them. Laban departed and returned to his place.

World English Bible Classic. Public domain.

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