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Jacob Prepares to Meet Esau and Wrestles through the Night
Genesis 32:1–21; Genesis 32:22–32
In this lesson, children follow Jacob from fearful preparation to a night of wrestling and blessing. They will sequence the account, notice Jacob’s choices, and identify what these verses show about people who fear and pray, and about God who preserves and blesses.
Before you teach
Genesis 32:1–21 shows Jacob nearing Esau, sending messengers, hearing that Esau is coming with four hundred men, and responding with planning, prayer, and gifts. Genesis 32:22–32 then focuses on one night at the Jabbok, where Jacob is left alone, wrestles until daybreak, receives the name Israel, and says he has seen God face to face and been preserved.
Students will be able to retell the events in order, name Jacob’s choices in fear and prayer, and explain from the passage that Jacob fears Esau and asks for deliverance while God preserves him, blesses him, and gives him the name Israel.
Welcome: Hear the problem and the prayer
4 minIntroduce the lesson by asking children to listen for two things: what Jacob fears and what Jacob says to God. Explain that Esau is coming with four hundred men, so Jacob is greatly afraid and distressed. He responds by planning carefully and by asking God to deliver him from Esau’s hand.
Genesis 32:6, Genesis 32:7, Genesis 32:11
Read and explain: Jacob prepares to meet Esau
8 minRead Genesis 32:1–21 in short parts. Point out the order: angels of God meet Jacob, he names the place Mahanaim, he sends messengers to Esau, hears Esau is coming, divides the camp into two companies, prays, and prepares a large present in separate herds to go before him.
Genesis 32:1, Genesis 32:2, Genesis 32:3, Genesis 32:6, Genesis 32:7, Genesis 32:13, Genesis 32:16, Genesis 32:21
Discuss: What does this show about Jacob and about God?
6 minGuide children to observe the text closely. Jacob admits fear and says, “Please deliver me.” He also says he is not worthy of God’s loving kindness and truth. These verses show a person in trouble who prays honestly. They also show God as the one Jacob asks for help and the one whose kindness Jacob remembers.
Genesis 32:10, Genesis 32:11, Genesis 32:12
Make and respond: Sequence the night at the Jabbok
8 minRead Genesis 32:22–32 and sequence the events. Jacob takes his family across the stream, is left alone, wrestles with a man until daybreak, is struck in the thigh, asks for a blessing, receives the name Israel, and later limps. Emphasise Jacob’s own words that he has seen God face to face and his life is preserved.
Genesis 32:22, Genesis 32:24, Genesis 32:25, Genesis 32:26, Genesis 32:28, Genesis 32:30, Genesis 32:31
Closing: Retell the account and state the outcomes
4 minFinish by inviting children to retell the passage in five clear steps. Review the outcomes named in the text: the present goes ahead, Jacob is blessed there, his name becomes Israel, he names the place Peniel, and he limps as the sun rises. Ask for one sentence about what these verses teach about God and people.
Genesis 32:21, Genesis 32:28, Genesis 32:29, Genesis 32:30, Genesis 32:31
Questions to explore
Why does Jacob divide the people and animals into two companies?
Answer from Jacob’s own explanation about what may happen if Esau attacks one company and the other escapes.
Genesis 32:7, Genesis 32:8
What words in Jacob’s prayer show both humility and fear?
Look for the line where Jacob says he is not worthy, and the line where he asks to be delivered because he fears Esau.
Genesis 32:10, Genesis 32:11
What does Jacob say after the wrestling that teaches us something about God?
Find Jacob’s words about seeing God face to face and having his life preserved.
Genesis 32:30
Make, think or respond
Jacob’s Journey Sequence Cards
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or markers
- Bible
- scissors
- optional sticky tape
Try it together
- Write or draw 8 simple cards from the passage, such as angels meet Jacob, messengers sent to Esau, two companies, Jacob’s prayer, gifts sent ahead, Jacob alone, wrestling till daybreak, new name and limp.
- Mix the cards and let children work in pairs to place them in order.
- Read the matching verses aloud as children check and adjust their order.
- Ask each pair to choose one card and say what Jacob did there and what the text shows about Jacob or about God.
- If time allows, tape the cards into a long line and retell the whole passage together.
This activity helps children sequence the account, identify Jacob’s choices, and notice text-based truths such as Jacob’s fear and prayer and Jacob’s statement that God preserved him.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, reduce the sequence to five cards and let them use simple drawings rather than written captions.
- For older or confident readers, ask them to add short labels with Jacob’s exact words from the passage, such as “Please deliver me” or “I won’t let you go unless you bless me.”
An optional closing prayer
“God, Jacob said he was not worthy of your kindness and asked you to deliver him because he was afraid. Please help us bring our fears to you, and thank you that you preserved Jacob and blessed him.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Genesis 32
1 Jacob went on his way, and the angels of God met him.
2 When he saw them, Jacob said, “This is God’s army.” He called the name of that place Mahanaim.
3 Jacob sent messengers in front of him to Esau, his brother, to the land of Seir, the field of Edom.
4 He commanded them, saying, “This is what you shall tell my lord, Esau: ‘This is what your servant, Jacob, says. I have lived as a foreigner with Laban, and stayed until now.
5 I have cattle, donkeys, flocks, male servants, and female servants. I have sent to tell my lord, that I may find favor in your sight.’ ”
6 The messengers returned to Jacob, saying, “We came to your brother Esau. He is coming to meet you, and four hundred men are with him.”
7 Then Jacob was greatly afraid and was distressed. He divided the people who were with him, along with the flocks, the herds, and the camels, into two companies.
8 He said, “If Esau comes to the one company, and strikes it, then the company which is left will escape.”
9 Jacob said, “God of my father Abraham, and God of my father Isaac, Yahweh, who said to me, ‘Return to your country, and to your relatives, and I will do you good,’
10 I am not worthy of the least of all the loving kindnesses, and of all the truth, which you have shown to your servant; for with just my staff I crossed over this Jordan; and now I have become two companies.
11 Please deliver me from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau; for I fear him, lest he come and strike me and the mothers with the children.
12 You said, ‘I will surely do you good, and make your offspring as the sand of the sea, which can’t be counted because there are so many.’ ”
13 He stayed there that night, and took from that which he had with him a present for Esau, his brother:
14 two hundred female goats and twenty male goats, two hundred ewes and twenty rams,
15 thirty milk camels and their colts, forty cows, ten bulls, twenty female donkeys and ten foals.
16 He delivered them into the hands of his servants, every herd by itself, and said to his servants, “Pass over before me, and put a space between herd and herd.”
17 He commanded the foremost, saying, “When Esau, my brother, meets you, and asks you, saying, ‘Whose are you? Where are you going? Whose are these before you?’
18 Then you shall say, ‘They are your servant, Jacob’s. It is a present sent to my lord, Esau. Behold, he also is behind us.’ ”
19 He commanded also the second, and the third, and all that followed the herds, saying, “This is how you shall speak to Esau, when you find him.
20 You shall say, ‘Not only that, but behold, your servant, Jacob, is behind us.’ ” For, he said, “I will appease him with the present that goes before me, and afterward I will see his face. Perhaps he will accept me.”
21 So the present passed over before him, and he himself stayed that night in the camp.
22 He rose up that night, and took his two wives, and his two servants, and his eleven sons, and crossed over the ford of the Jabbok.
23 He took them, and sent them over the stream, and sent over that which he had.
24 Jacob was left alone, and wrestled with a man there until the breaking of the day.
25 When he saw that he didn’t prevail against him, the man touched the hollow of his thigh, and the hollow of Jacob’s thigh was strained as he wrestled.
26 The man said, “Let me go, for the day breaks.” Jacob said, “I won’t let you go unless you bless me.”
27 He said to him, “What is your name?” He said, “Jacob”.
28 He said, “Your name will no longer be called Jacob, but Israel; for you have fought with God and with men, and have prevailed.”
29 Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” He said, “Why is it that you ask what my name is?” So he blessed him there.
30 Jacob called the name of the place Peniel; for he said, “I have seen God face to face, and my life is preserved.”
31 The sun rose on him as he passed over Peniel, and he limped because of his thigh.
32 Therefore the children of Israel don’t eat the sinew of the hip, which is on the hollow of the thigh, to this day, because he touched the hollow of Jacob’s thigh in the sinew of the hip.
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.
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