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James 4: A Warning against Pride
James 4:1–6; James 4:7–12; James 4:13–17
James 4 warns that pride can show up in arguments, wrong desires, unkind judgement and boastful talk about tomorrow. This lesson helps children follow the passage step by step and see James’s call to humility before God.
Before you teach
In James 4:1–17, James first traces fights back to selfish pleasures and wrong motives. He then warns that friendship with the world is hostility toward God, mentions the Spirit who lives in us, and contrasts pride with the grace God gives to the humble. Next he calls people to draw near to God, and finally warns against boasting about future plans.
Students will be able to identify how James 4 connects pride with selfish desires, friendship with the world, judging others and boastful plans, and name humble responses James commands.
Welcome: What pride looks like in James 4
4 minIntroduce the lesson by saying James 4 is a warning passage. Ask children to listen for signs of pride and calls to humility. Explain that pride appears in quarrels, wrong wanting, siding with the world, speaking against others and boasting about tomorrow. Humility appears in submitting to God and drawing near to him.
James 4:1, James 4:3, James 4:4, James 4:7, James 4:11, James 4:16
Read and explain: Desires, the world and grace
8 minRead James 4:1–6 aloud. James says fights come from pleasures at war within people, and even asking can be wrong when motives are selfish. He warns that friendship with the world is hostility toward God. Then he gives the main contrast: God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble.
James 4:1, James 4:3, James 4:4, James 4:6
Discuss: Draw near to God and stop judging
6 minRead James 4:7–12. Help children notice the commands: be subject to God, resist the devil, draw near to God, cleanse your hands, purify your hearts and humble yourselves. Explain that James is calling for a real turning back to God. Then notice that James also says not to speak against one another, because God is the one lawgiver who is able to save and to destroy.
James 4:7, James 4:8, James 4:9, James 4:10, James 4:11, James 4:12
Make and respond: Humble words for tomorrow
8 minRead James 4:13–17 and give a simple example of acting as if tomorrow is fully under our control. James warns against boasting because we do not know tomorrow and ought to speak with awareness of the Lord’s will. Children then choose a key verse or phrase and make a reminder card.
James 4:13, James 4:14, James 4:15, James 4:16, James 4:17
Closing: Review James’s path from pride to humility
4 minReview the flow of the chapter in order. Pride shows up in selfish desires, wrong asking, friendship with the world, speaking against others and boasting. James answers that with grace for the humble, drawing near to God, humble speech and remembering the Lord’s will. Invite each child to say one command or warning they remember from the passage.
James 4:3, James 4:4, James 4:6, James 4:8, James 4:11, James 4:15, James 4:16
Questions to explore
How does James connect fights with what is happening inside people?
Look for James’s words about pleasures at war within people, and notice how he also mentions asking with wrong motives for selfish pleasure.
James 4:1, James 4:3
What warning does James give about friendship with the world, and what does he say right after that about the Spirit and God’s grace?
Use James’s own words: friendship with the world is hostility toward God, then James says the Spirit who lives in us yearns jealously, and God gives grace to the humble.
James 4:4, James 4:5, James 4:6
Why is boasting about tomorrow a problem in this passage?
James says people do not know what tomorrow will be like, life is like a vapour, and people ought to speak with awareness of the Lord’s will instead of boasting.
James 4:14, James 4:15, James 4:16
Make, think or respond
Humble Heart Reminder Card
What you’ll need
- paper or card
- pencils or pens
- crayons or markers
- Bible text for reference
Try it together
- Read James 4:6, James 4:8, James 4:10 or James 4:15 and let each child choose one verse or short phrase.
- Fold a small piece of card in half and write the chosen verse or phrase on the front.
- Inside, write or draw one realistic situation where the verse could help, such as an argument, unkind words, wanting something badly, or talking proudly about tomorrow.
- Invite children to share how their chosen words call them away from pride and towards humility before God.
This activity helps children keep one part of James 4 in mind when they face quarrels, wrong desires, unkind speech or proud planning.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, offer two verse choices only, such as James 4:6 and James 4:10, and let them draw a response instead of writing a full sentence.
- For older or more confident children, ask them to explain how James 4:1–6 connects to James 4:13–17 by tracing one shared theme of pride or humility.
An optional closing prayer
‘Lord, please help us turn from pride, come near to you, speak kindly, and remember your will in our plans. Amen.’
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
James 4
1 Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members?
2 You lust, and don’t have. You murder and covet, and can’t obtain. You fight and make war. You don’t have, because you don’t ask.
3 You ask, and don’t receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures.
4 You adulterers and adulteresses, don’t you know that friendship with the world is hostility toward God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God.
5 Or do you think that the Scripture says in vain, “The Spirit who lives in us yearns jealously”?
6 But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”
7 Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
8 Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners. Purify your hearts, you double-minded.
9 Lament, mourn, and weep. Let your laughter be turned to mourning and your joy to gloom.
10 Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he will exalt you.
11 Don’t speak against one another, brothers. He who speaks against a brother and judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge.
12 Only one is the lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge another?
13 Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow let’s go into this city and spend a year there, trade, and make a profit.”
14 Yet you don’t know what your life will be like tomorrow. For what is your life? For you are a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away.
15 For you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will both live, and do this or that.”
16 But now you glory in your boasting. All such boasting is evil.
17 To him therefore who knows to do good and doesn’t do it, to him it is sin.
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.