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Judah and Tamar

Genesis 38:1–30

Judah failed Tamar in his family, and later had to admit the truth when his own signs exposed him.

12–17 years40 minutes

Before you teach

At that time, Judah went down from his brothers and visited an Adullamite man named Hirah. There he took the daughter of a Canaanite man named Shua, and she bore three sons: Er, Onan, and Shelah. Later Judah found a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. But Er was wicked in Yahweh’s sight, and Yahweh killed him. Judah told Onan to perform a brother’s duty for Er by raising up offspring for his dead brother through Tamar. Onan did not want that child to count as…

Learning aim

Explain the central teaching of Judah and Tamar, using two details from the reading. Judah failed Tamar in his family, and later had to admit the truth when his own signs exposed him.

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Welcome: Judah and Tamar

5 min

Introduce “Judah and Tamar” and locate Genesis 38:1–30. Judah failed Tamar in his family, and later had to admit the truth when his own signs exposed him. Invite each learner to name a detail or question they will listen for.

Genesis 38:1, Genesis 38:16, Genesis 38:30

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Read and explain the passage

12 min

At that time, Judah went down from his brothers and visited an Adullamite man named Hirah. There he took the daughter of a Canaanite man named Shua, and she bore three sons: Er, Onan, and Shelah. Later Judah found a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. But Er was wicked in Yahweh’s sight, and Yahweh killed him.

Judah asked to go in to her, promising a young goat from the flock. Tamar asked for a pledge until he sent it, and Judah gave her his signet, its cord, and his staff. She conceived by him, then left, removed her veil, and put her widow’s garments on again. Later Judah sent the young goat by Hirah to get the pledge back, but the woman was not found.

When it was time for Tamar to give birth, twins were in her womb. During the birth, one baby put out a hand, and the midwife tied a scarlet thread on it, saying that one came out first. But he drew back his hand, and his brother came out first instead. He was named Perez. Afterwards the brother with the scarlet thread was born, and he was named Zerah.

Read the selected verses together, pausing at “Judah and Tamar”. Use the source reading below and check the explanation against the words of the passage.

Genesis 38:1, Genesis 38:2, Genesis 38:7, Genesis 38:18, Genesis 38:17, Genesis 38:23, Genesis 38:28, Genesis 38:29, Genesis 38:30

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Discuss the details and their meaning

8 min

Use the three questions below. Begin with ““Judah told Onan to perform a brother’s duty for Er by raising up offspring for his dead brother through Tamar.” Which details explain how the account reaches this point?” and allow time to find the supporting verses. Judah failed Tamar in his family, and later had to admit the truth when his own signs exposed him. Ask learners to explain which details support their answer and to identify a question they would like to explore further.

Genesis 38:11, Genesis 38:8, Genesis 38:10, Genesis 38:18, Genesis 38:17, Genesis 38:23, Genesis 38:28, Genesis 38:29, Genesis 38:30

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Make and respond: Choices and outcomes evidence map

12 min

Work on “Judah and Tamar: Choices and outcomes evidence map”. Follow the materials and steps below, using “Judah and Tamar” as reading headings. Each learner should include at least two accurate details and their verse references. Share one observation from the finished sheet and explain how it connects with the central teaching.

Genesis 38:1, Genesis 38:16, Genesis 38:30

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Closing: return to Judah and Tamar

3 min

Revisit Genesis 38:1–30. Invite a learner to summarise what the group has learned about Judah and Tamar and another to support the summary with a verse. Give learners a moment to complete their response sheet. They can share a question or, if appropriate for the group, join the optional prayer.

Genesis 38:1, Genesis 38:16, Genesis 38:30

Questions to explore

“Judah told Onan to perform a brother’s duty for Er by raising up offspring for his dead brother through Tamar.” Which details explain how the account reaches this point?

Judah told Onan to perform a brother’s duty for Er by raising up offspring for his dead brother through Tamar. Onan did not want that child to count as his brother’s, and what he did was evil in Yahweh’s sight. Yahweh killed him too. Then Judah told Tamar to live as a widow in her father’s house until Shelah was grown, but Tamar was not…

Genesis 38:11, Genesis 38:8, Genesis 38:10

How does this moment affect the rest of the account: “Judah asked to go in to her, promising a young goat from the flock.”?

Judah asked to go in to her, promising a young goat from the flock. Tamar asked for a pledge until he sent it, and Judah gave her his signet, its cord, and his staff. She conceived by him, then left, removed her veil, and put her widow’s garments on again. Later Judah sent the young goat by Hirah to get the pledge back, but the…

Genesis 38:18, Genesis 38:17, Genesis 38:23

“When it was time for Tamar to give birth, twins were in her womb.” How does this ending connect with the beginning?

When it was time for Tamar to give birth, twins were in her womb. During the birth, one baby put out a hand, and the midwife tied a scarlet thread on it, saying that one came out first. But he drew back his hand, and his brother came out first instead. He was named Perez. Afterwards the brother with the scarlet thread was born, and…

Genesis 38:28, Genesis 38:29, Genesis 38:30

Make, think or respond

Judah and Tamar: Choices and outcomes evidence map

What you’ll need

  • plain paper or card
  • pencils or pens
  • a Bible or the source reading on this page

Try it together

  1. Fold a sheet into three panels or draw three columns. Label them “Words or actions”, “What happens next”, “Verse reference”.
  2. Read Genesis 38:1–30. Use “Judah and Tamar” as your reading headings and add a short quotation or detail with its verse reference to each panel.
  3. Compare your notes with a partner. Check that every quotation is accurate and every conclusion has support in the passage.
  4. Compare two actions or statements in the account and explain their different outcomes.

The finished sheet keeps the details of Judah and Tamar connected to their Bible references and gives the group a way to explain what they noticed.

Adapt for your group

  • For learners who need more support, prepare the reading headings “Judah and Tamar” and let them match short quotations to the correct heading.
  • For confident readers, compare two sections of Genesis 38:1–30. Ask for a written explanation with two supporting references and one question that the text leaves open.

An optional closing prayer

“God, help us listen carefully as we read Genesis 38:1–30. Help us understand what we have read, ask thoughtful questions and respond with care for others. Amen.”

Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic

Genesis 38

1 At that time, Judah went down from his brothers, and visited a certain Adullamite, whose name was Hirah.

2 There, Judah saw the daughter of a certain Canaanite man named Shua. He took her, and went in to her.

3 She conceived, and bore a son; and he named him Er.

4 She conceived again, and bore a son; and she named him Onan.

5 She yet again bore a son, and named him Shelah. He was at Chezib when she bore him.

6 Judah took a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar.

7 Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in Yahweh’s sight. So Yahweh killed him.

8 Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother’s wife, and perform the duty of a husband’s brother to her, and raise up offspring for your brother.”

9 Onan knew that the offspring wouldn’t be his; and when he went in to his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground, lest he should give offspring to his brother.

10 The thing which he did was evil in Yahweh’s sight, and he killed him also.

11 Then Judah said to Tamar, his daughter-in-law, “Remain a widow in your father’s house, until Shelah, my son, is grown up;” for he said, “Lest he also die, like his brothers.” Tamar went and lived in her father’s house.

12 After many days, Shua’s daughter, the wife of Judah, died. Judah was comforted, and went up to his sheep shearers to Timnah, he and his friend Hirah, the Adullamite.

13 Tamar was told, “Behold, your father-in-law is going up to Timnah to shear his sheep.”

14 She took off the garments of her widowhood, and covered herself with her veil, and wrapped herself, and sat in the gate of Enaim, which is on the way to Timnah; for she saw that Shelah was grown up, and she wasn’t given to him as a wife.

15 When Judah saw her, he thought that she was a prostitute, for she had covered her face.

16 He turned to her by the way, and said, “Please come, let me come in to you,” for he didn’t know that she was his daughter-in-law. She said, “What will you give me, that you may come in to me?”

17 He said, “I will send you a young goat from the flock.” She said, “Will you give me a pledge, until you send it?”

18 He said, “What pledge will I give you?” She said, “Your signet and your cord, and your staff that is in your hand.” He gave them to her, and came in to her, and she conceived by him.

19 She arose, and went away, and put off her veil from her, and put on the garments of her widowhood.

20 Judah sent the young goat by the hand of his friend, the Adullamite, to receive the pledge from the woman’s hand, but he didn’t find her.

21 Then he asked the men of her place, saying, “Where is the prostitute, that was at Enaim by the road?” They said, “There has been no prostitute here.”

22 He returned to Judah, and said, “I haven’t found her; and also the men of the place said, ‘There has been no prostitute here.’ ”

23 Judah said, “Let her keep it, lest we be shamed. Behold, I sent this young goat, and you haven’t found her.”

24 About three months later, Judah was told, “Tamar, your daughter-in-law, has played the prostitute. Moreover, behold, she is with child by prostitution.” Judah said, “Bring her out, and let her be burned.”

25 When she was brought out, she sent to her father-in-law, saying, “I am with child by the man who owns these.” She also said, “Please discern whose these are—the signet, and the cords, and the staff.”

26 Judah acknowledged them, and said, “She is more righteous than I, because I didn’t give her to Shelah, my son.” He knew her again no more.

27 In the time of her travail, behold, twins were in her womb.

28 When she travailed, one put out a hand, and the midwife took and tied a scarlet thread on his hand, saying, “This came out first.”

29 As he drew back his hand, behold, his brother came out, and she said, “Why have you made a breach for yourself?” Therefore his name was called Perez.

30 Afterward his brother came out, who had the scarlet thread on his hand, and his name was called Zerah.

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