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Proverbs 11: Dishonest Scales
Proverbs 11:1–31
Proverbs 11 uses short wisdom sayings to compare honesty and pride, truth and gossip, kindness and cruelty, generosity and greed. In this lesson, children will trace those contrasts and explain the main teaching about living in ways that please Yahweh.
Before you teach
This chapter is a collection of proverbs that place two paths side by side. It begins with false and accurate weights, then moves through speech, neighbours, guidance, mercy, wealth and righteousness. The sayings repeatedly show that choices affect both individuals and the wider community.
Students will be able to identify at least three contrasts in Proverbs 11 and explain that the chapter teaches truthful, humble, righteous living rather than proud, harmful and greedy behaviour.
Welcome: Spot the two paths
4 minBegin by telling the class that Proverbs 11 teaches by contrast. Write pairs from the chapter on a board: false balance and accurate weights, pride and humility, gossip and trustworthiness. Ask children to listen for how one path brings harm while the other brings good. This prepares them to hear the chapter’s repeated pattern.
Proverbs 11:1, Proverbs 11:2, Proverbs 11:13
Read and explain: What does Yahweh delight in?
7 minRead selected verses aloud, especially verse 1. Explain that a false balance means dishonest measuring, while accurate weights picture fairness in everyday dealings. Show that the chapter quickly widens from business honesty to the whole shape of life: humility brings wisdom, and integrity guides the upright. Emphasise that Yahweh delights in what is true and blameless.
Proverbs 11:1, Proverbs 11:2, Proverbs 11:3, Proverbs 11:20
Discuss: How words and choices affect others
6 minGuide children through verses about neighbours, cities and homes. Ask them to notice that speech can destroy a neighbour, gossip can betray confidence, and wicked words can harm a city. Then compare that with blessing, peace and trustworthy secrecy. Help them see that wisdom in Proverbs 11 is not private only. It affects families, friends and communities.
Proverbs 11:9, Proverbs 11:11, Proverbs 11:12, Proverbs 11:13, Proverbs 11:29
Make and respond: Reminder card from a key verse
8 minLet each child choose one key proverb from the passage, such as verse 1, 2, 17, 24 or 25. They create a small reminder card with the verse reference, a few copied words, and a simple drawing showing the wise path. Invite them to explain one realistic example, such as sharing fairly, keeping a confidence, or speaking kindly.
Proverbs 11:1, Proverbs 11:2, Proverbs 11:17, Proverbs 11:24, Proverbs 11:25
Closing: Summarise the chapter’s wisdom
5 minFinish by reviewing the main contrasts children discovered. Point out that riches cannot save in the day of wrath, but righteousness matters greatly. Generosity brings blessing, while trusting riches leads to falling. Close with a brief class summary: Proverbs 11 teaches that wise people choose honesty, humility, kindness and righteousness because these ways please Yahweh and bless others.
Proverbs 11:4, Proverbs 11:24, Proverbs 11:25, Proverbs 11:28, Proverbs 11:30
Questions to explore
In Proverbs 11:1, what is the difference between a false balance and accurate weights, and why does that matter in this chapter?
Use the words 'abomination' and 'delight' and connect them with the chapter’s wider call to integrity and blameless ways.
Proverbs 11:1, Proverbs 11:3, Proverbs 11:20
Which verses show that our words affect other people, not just ourselves?
Look for sayings about a neighbour, a city, keeping peace and keeping a secret, then explain whether the words bring harm or help.
Proverbs 11:9, Proverbs 11:11, Proverbs 11:12, Proverbs 11:13
How do verses 24 to 28 challenge the idea that holding tightly to wealth is always best?
Compare scattering with increase, withholding with poverty, watering others with being watered, and trusting riches with falling.
Proverbs 11:24, Proverbs 11:25, Proverbs 11:26, Proverbs 11:28
Make, think or respond
Wise Path Reminder Card
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or pens
- coloured pencils or markers
- Bible
Try it together
- Ask each child to choose one verse from Proverbs 11 that stands out to them.
- Help them copy the reference and a short phrase from the verse onto a small card.
- Invite them to draw a simple picture that matches the proverb, such as balanced scales, kind speech, or helping hands.
- Pair children to share one realistic situation where that proverb could guide a choice this week.
- Collect or display the cards and briefly review how each one points to the wise path in the chapter.
This activity helps children focus on one proverb and connect its contrast between wisdom and folly to an everyday choice in light of Proverbs 11.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, offer two or three pre-selected verses and let them choose one to illustrate with a simple picture and one spoken sentence.
- For older or more confident children, ask them to compare two proverbs from the chapter and explain how both support the same central wisdom teaching.
An optional closing prayer
'God, please help us love what is honest, humble, kind and right. Help our words and choices bring good to others. Amen.'
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Proverbs 11
1 A false balance is an abomination to Yahweh, but accurate weights are his delight.
2 When pride comes, then comes shame, but with humility comes wisdom.
3 The integrity of the upright shall guide them, but the perverseness of the treacherous shall destroy them.
4 Riches don’t profit in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death.
5 The righteousness of the blameless will direct his way, but the wicked shall fall by his own wickedness.
6 The righteousness of the upright shall deliver them, but the unfaithful will be trapped by evil desires.
7 When a wicked man dies, hope perishes, and expectation of power comes to nothing.
8 A righteous person is delivered out of trouble, and the wicked takes his place.
9 With his mouth the godless man destroys his neighbor, but the righteous will be delivered through knowledge.
10 When it goes well with the righteous, the city rejoices. When the wicked perish, there is shouting.
11 By the blessing of the upright, the city is exalted, but it is overthrown by the mouth of the wicked.
12 One who despises his neighbor is void of wisdom, but a man of understanding holds his peace.
13 One who brings gossip betrays a confidence, but one who is of a trustworthy spirit is one who keeps a secret.
14 Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory.
15 He who is collateral for a stranger will suffer for it, but he who refuses pledges of collateral is secure.
16 A gracious woman obtains honor, but violent men obtain riches.
17 The merciful man does good to his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh.
18 Wicked people earn deceitful wages, but one who sows righteousness reaps a sure reward.
19 He who is truly righteous gets life. He who pursues evil gets death.
20 Those who are perverse in heart are an abomination to Yahweh, but those whose ways are blameless are his delight.
21 Most certainly, the evil man will not be unpunished, but the offspring of the righteous will be delivered.
22 Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout, is a beautiful woman who lacks discretion.
23 The desire of the righteous is only good. The expectation of the wicked is wrath.
24 There is one who scatters, and increases yet more. There is one who withholds more than is appropriate, but gains poverty.
25 The liberal soul shall be made fat. He who waters shall be watered also himself.
26 People curse someone who withholds grain, but blessing will be on the head of him who sells it.
27 He who diligently seeks good seeks favor, but he who searches after evil, it shall come to him.
28 He who trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous shall flourish as the green leaf.
29 He who troubles his own house shall inherit the wind. The foolish shall be servant to the wise of heart.
30 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life. He who is wise wins souls.
31 Behold, the righteous shall be repaid on the earth, how much more the wicked and the sinner!
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