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Proverbs 14: The Wise Woman
Proverbs 14:1–35
Proverbs 14 places wise and foolish ways beside each other in many short sayings. This lesson helps children notice those contrasts, beginning with the wise woman who builds, and trace how the chapter links choices, words, work and care for others.
Before you teach
This chapter is a collection of short wisdom sayings. It begins by contrasting a wise woman with the foolish one, then keeps comparing upright and perverse, truthful and false, prudent and reckless. Repeated sayings show themes such as fearing Yahweh, speaking truth, planning good and treating neighbours rightly.
Students will be able to compare wise and foolish examples in Proverbs 14 and explain repeated wisdom themes from the chapter using its own sayings.
Welcome: Building or tearing down
5 minRead Proverbs 14:1 aloud twice. Ask children to listen for the two actions in the verse: builds and tears down. Explain that the proverb presents a strong contrast within the household. Tell the group that the chapter continues with many contrasts, so they will listen for wise and foolish examples through the lesson.
Proverbs 14:1
Read and explain: Careful ways and dangerous ways
8 minRead selected verses such as Proverbs 14:1, Proverbs 14:2, Proverbs 14:8, Proverbs 14:12, Proverbs 14:15 and Proverbs 14:16. Explain simple terms from the text: uprightness describes a right way of walking, and prudent describes someone who carefully considers his way. Point out that Proverbs 14:12 warns that a way can seem right and still lead to death.
Proverbs 14:1, Proverbs 14:2, Proverbs 14:8, Proverbs 14:12, Proverbs 14:15, Proverbs 14:16
Discuss: Truthful words, patience and kindness
6 minGuide children to find more examples of wisdom and folly. Compare truthful and false speech, hard work and mere talk, patience and quick temper, and kindness or contempt towards poor and needy people. Help them see that this chapter connects wisdom with truthful words, self-control, effort and mercy towards others.
Proverbs 14:3, Proverbs 14:5, Proverbs 14:21, Proverbs 14:23, Proverbs 14:25, Proverbs 14:29, Proverbs 14:31
Make and respond: Wisdom reminder card
7 minChildren choose one verse from the lesson readings and make a small reminder card. On one side they write the verse reference and a key phrase such as "builds her house" or "carefully considers his ways". On the other side they draw or write one realistic example that fits the saying from Proverbs 14.
Proverbs 14:1, Proverbs 14:15, Proverbs 14:21, Proverbs 14:25, Proverbs 14:29, Proverbs 14:31
Closing: Trace the repeated wisdom themes
4 minAsk pairs to finish this sentence: "Proverbs 14 teaches that wisdom..." Invite a few answers and guide children to use repeated sayings from the chapter about building, considering one’s way, fearing Yahweh, finding refuge and planning good. Explain that these are themes traced across the sayings, not one single sentence stated by the chapter.
Proverbs 14:1, Proverbs 14:8, Proverbs 14:22, Proverbs 14:26, Proverbs 14:27
Questions to explore
In Proverbs 14:1, what is the difference between the wise woman and the foolish one?
Look closely at the two actions in the verse and explain how one builds while the other tears down.
Proverbs 14:1
Which verses show that wisdom includes more than being smart?
Use examples from the chapter about truthful speech, careful choices, shunning evil, patience and kindness to poor or needy people.
Proverbs 14:5, Proverbs 14:15, Proverbs 14:16, Proverbs 14:29, Proverbs 14:31
Why does the chapter warn that a way can seem right and still be dangerous?
Connect the warning about a path that leads to death with the sayings that call people to consider their ways and speak of the fear of Yahweh as refuge and life.
Proverbs 14:8, Proverbs 14:12, Proverbs 14:26, Proverbs 14:27
Make, think or respond
Wise Way Reminder Card
What you’ll need
- card or paper
- pencils or pens
- crayons or markers
- Bible
Try it together
- Read several key verses together and let each child choose one verse reference.
- Fold or cut a small card and write the verse reference and a short phrase from the verse on the front.
- On the back, draw or write one everyday example that fits the verse.
- Invite children to show their card and explain how it matches the wisdom teaching in Proverbs 14.
This activity helps children connect a chosen proverb with a concrete example of building, truthful speaking, careful thinking or kindness from the chapter.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, offer only three verse choices and let them draw their example instead of writing a full sentence.
- For older or more confident children, ask them to compare two verses and explain how both support a repeated wisdom theme in the chapter.
An optional closing prayer
"Dear God, please help us choose ways that build, speak truth, plan good and show kindness to others. Help us learn wisdom from your word. Amen."
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Proverbs 14
1 Every wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands.
2 He who walks in his uprightness fears Yahweh, but he who is perverse in his ways despises him.
3 The fool’s talk brings a rod to his back, but the lips of the wise protect them.
4 Where no oxen are, the crib is clean, but much increase is by the strength of the ox.
5 A truthful witness will not lie, but a false witness pours out lies.
6 A scoffer seeks wisdom, and doesn’t find it, but knowledge comes easily to a discerning person.
7 Stay away from a foolish man, for you won’t find knowledge on his lips.
8 The wisdom of the prudent is to think about his way, but the folly of fools is deceit.
9 Fools mock at making atonement for sins, but among the upright there is good will.
10 The heart knows its own bitterness and joy; he will not share these with a stranger.
11 The house of the wicked will be overthrown, but the tent of the upright will flourish.
12 There is a way which seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death.
13 Even in laughter the heart may be sorrowful, and mirth may end in heaviness.
14 The unfaithful will be repaid for his own ways; likewise a good man will be rewarded for his ways.
15 A simple man believes everything, but the prudent man carefully considers his ways.
16 A wise man fears and shuns evil, but the fool is hot headed and reckless.
17 He who is quick to become angry will commit folly, and a crafty man is hated.
18 The simple inherit folly, but the prudent are crowned with knowledge.
19 The evil bow down before the good, and the wicked at the gates of the righteous.
20 The poor person is shunned even by his own neighbor, but the rich person has many friends.
21 He who despises his neighbor sins, but he who has pity on the poor is blessed.
22 Don’t they go astray who plot evil? But love and faithfulness belong to those who plan good.
23 In all hard work there is profit, but the talk of the lips leads only to poverty.
24 The crown of the wise is their riches, but the folly of fools crowns them with folly.
25 A truthful witness saves souls, but a false witness is deceitful.
26 In the fear of Yahweh is a secure fortress, and he will be a refuge for his children.
27 The fear of Yahweh is a fountain of life, turning people from the snares of death.
28 In the multitude of people is the king’s glory, but in the lack of people is the destruction of the prince.
29 He who is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a quick temper displays folly.
30 The life of the body is a heart at peace, but envy rots the bones.
31 He who oppresses the poor shows contempt for his Maker, but he who is kind to the needy honors him.
32 The wicked is brought down in his calamity, but in death, the righteous has a refuge.
33 Wisdom rests in the heart of one who has understanding, and is even made known in the inward part of fools.
34 Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a disgrace to any people.
35 The king’s favor is toward a servant who deals wisely, but his wrath is toward one who causes shame.
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