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Proverbs 5: Avoiding Immorality
Proverbs 5:1–23
Proverbs 5 teaches wisdom by contrasting two paths. This lesson helps students trace the warning, notice the outcomes described, and explain how the passage directs a person to listen, keep clear of temptation, and value faithfulness.
Before you teach
In Proverbs 5, a fatherly voice urges a son to pay attention to wisdom and instruction. The chapter warns about the deceptive appeal of adultery, describes painful consequences, then turns to the goodness of faithful marriage and ends by saying that Yahweh sees every path.
Students will be able to compare the seductive voice and the voice of wisdom in Proverbs 5, and explain that the chapter calls for listening to instruction, avoiding adultery, and rejoicing in faithful marriage.
Welcome: Two voices in the chapter
5 minWrite two headings where everyone can see: 'wisdom' and 'temptation'. Explain that Proverbs 5 opens with a call to listen carefully so that discretion and knowledge are kept. Tell students they will track how the chapter contrasts a tempting voice with wise instruction and its outcomes. Read verses 1 to 2 aloud together.
Proverbs 5:1, Proverbs 5:2
Read and explain: Attractive words, bitter end
10 minRead verses 3 to 14. Point out the contrast in the language: the adulteress seems sweet and smooth at first, but the end is bitter, sharp, and leads away from life. Note the practical warning to stay far away, and the later regret of someone who refused instruction and reproof.
Proverbs 5:3, Proverbs 5:4, Proverbs 5:5, Proverbs 5:6, Proverbs 5:7, Proverbs 5:8, Proverbs 5:12, Proverbs 5:13, Proverbs 5:14
Discuss: The positive path of faithfulness
8 minRead verses 15 to 20. Explain that the water imagery pictures faithfulness and keeping marital love where it belongs. The chapter does not only say what to avoid. It also calls a husband to rejoice in the wife of his youth and not be captivated by an adulteress. Keep the discussion respectful and text-focused.
Proverbs 5:15, Proverbs 5:16, Proverbs 5:17, Proverbs 5:18, Proverbs 5:19, Proverbs 5:20
Make and respond: Wisdom reminder card
10 minAsk students to choose one verse from the chapter that best sums up its teaching. They write the reference on a card, add a short sentence explaining why it matters, and then describe one realistic situation where remembering that verse could help someone choose wisdom and instruction.
Proverbs 5:7, Proverbs 5:8, Proverbs 5:18, Proverbs 5:21, Proverbs 5:23
Closing: God sees the path we take
7 minRead verses 21 to 23 to finish. Summarise that this chapter ends with accountability before Yahweh, and with sin pictured as a trap that holds a person fast. Invite students to share one phrase from the chapter that shows why instruction matters, then close with the optional prayer.
Proverbs 5:21, Proverbs 5:22, Proverbs 5:23
Questions to explore
In verses 3 to 6, how does the chapter contrast first appearances with the final result?
Look for the sweet and smooth language at the start, then list the words that describe the ending and the direction of her path.
Proverbs 5:3, Proverbs 5:4, Proverbs 5:5, Proverbs 5:6
What signs of regret appear in verses 12 to 14, and what had the speaker refused earlier?
Notice the words about hating instruction, despising reproof, and not obeying teachers, then connect them to the warning to listen.
Proverbs 5:7, Proverbs 5:12, Proverbs 5:13, Proverbs 5:14
How do verses 21 to 23 strengthen the whole warning of the chapter?
Focus on what Yahweh sees, and on the pictures of being ensnared and going astray through lack of instruction.
Proverbs 5:21, Proverbs 5:22, Proverbs 5:23
Make, think or respond
Key Verse Reminder Card
What you’ll need
- index cards or scrap paper
- pens or pencils
- Bibles
Try it together
- Ask each student to choose one verse from Proverbs 5 that captures the chapter’s warning or positive instruction.
- Have them write the verse reference on one side of a card and a one-sentence summary of its teaching on the other side.
- Students add a brief realistic example of when this verse could help someone make a wise choice.
- Invite volunteers to read their chosen reference and explain why they selected it.
This activity helps students identify the central wisdom teaching in Proverbs 5 and connect the chapter’s instruction to real choices.
Adapt for your group
- For younger or less confident readers, pre-select three suitable verses such as Proverbs 5:1, Proverbs 5:8, and Proverbs 5:21, and let them choose from those.
- For older or more confident students, ask them to compare one warning verse and one positive instruction verse, then explain how both work together in the chapter.
An optional closing prayer
'Lord, help us listen to wisdom, accept instruction, and choose faithful and upright paths before you. Amen.'
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Proverbs 5
1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom. Turn your ear to my understanding,
2 that you may maintain discretion, that your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil,
4 but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood, and as sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to Sheol.
6 She gives no thought to the way of life. Her ways are crooked, and she doesn’t know it.
7 Now therefore, my sons, listen to me. Don’t depart from the words of my mouth.
8 Remove your way far from her. Don’t come near the door of her house,
9 lest you give your honor to others, and your years to the cruel one;
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth, and your labors enrich another man’s house.
11 You will groan at your latter end, when your flesh and your body are consumed,
12 and say, “How I have hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof.
13 I haven’t obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor turned my ear to those who instructed me!
14 I have come to the brink of utter ruin, among the gathered assembly.”
15 Drink water out of your own cistern, running water out of your own well.
16 Should your springs overflow in the streets, streams of water in the public squares?
17 Let them be for yourself alone, not for strangers with you.
18 Let your spring be blessed. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.
19 A loving doe and a graceful deer— let her breasts satisfy you at all times. Be captivated always with her love.
20 For why should you, my son, be captivated with an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another?
21 For the ways of man are before Yahweh’s eyes. He examines all his paths.
22 The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare him. The cords of his sin hold him firmly.
23 He will die for lack of instruction. In the greatness of his folly, he will go astray.
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