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Proverbs 9: The Way of Wisdom
Proverbs 9:1–12; Proverbs 9:13–18
Proverbs 9 sets two invitations side by side. Children can compare what Wisdom offers, what Folly promises, and how the passage teaches us to recognise which voice leads to life and which one leads to harm.
Before you teach
This passage presents Wisdom and Folly as two women calling out in the city. Both speak to the simple, but their invitations lead in very different directions. In the middle, the passage explains how wise and mocking people respond to correction and states where wisdom begins.
Students will be able to compare the invitations in Proverbs 9 and explain that wisdom begins with fearing Yahweh and walking in understanding.
Welcome: Two voices calling
4 minBegin by telling students they will hear two different calls in Proverbs 9. Ask them to listen for what each woman says, who she calls, and where her way leads. Explain that this passage compares wisdom and folly so we can notice the difference between them.
Proverbs 9:4, Proverbs 9:6, Proverbs 9:16, Proverbs 9:18
Read and explain: Wisdom prepares and invites
8 minRead Proverbs 9:1-6 aloud. Point out that Wisdom has prepared a house, a meal, and a clear invitation. She calls the simple to come, leave simple ways, live, and walk in understanding. Explain that the simple person in this passage is someone needing wisdom, not someone beyond help.
Proverbs 9:1, Proverbs 9:2, Proverbs 9:3, Proverbs 9:4, Proverbs 9:5, Proverbs 9:6
Discuss: Who listens to correction?
7 minRead Proverbs 9:7-12. Show that the passage contrasts a mocker with a wise person. A scoffer hates correction, but a wise person loves it and learns more. Emphasise the central teaching: “The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom.” Discuss how this section helps explain why some people respond differently.
Proverbs 9:7, Proverbs 9:8, Proverbs 9:9, Proverbs 9:10, Proverbs 9:11, Proverbs 9:12
Make and respond: Folly copies the call but hides the outcome
7 minRead Proverbs 9:13-18. Help students notice that Folly also calls the simple and sits in the high places, but her words are different. She offers stolen and secret pleasure, while the end is hidden danger. Students make a small reminder card with a key verse or short phrase from the passage.
Proverbs 9:13, Proverbs 9:14, Proverbs 9:15, Proverbs 9:16, Proverbs 9:17, Proverbs 9:18
Closing: Choose the way of understanding
4 minReview the contrast: Wisdom invites people to live and walk in understanding, while Folly sounds attractive but leads to death. Ask students to say one difference they noticed. Finish by repeating the main line together: wisdom begins with fearing Yahweh.
Proverbs 9:6, Proverbs 9:10, Proverbs 9:17, Proverbs 9:18
Questions to explore
What does Wisdom ask the simple person to do, and what result does she promise?
Look closely at Wisdom’s invitation and the action words in her call, especially “leave”, “live”, and “walk”.
Proverbs 9:4, Proverbs 9:5, Proverbs 9:6
How does the passage say a wise person responds to correction differently from a scoffer?
Compare the words about hating, loving, and increasing in learning.
Proverbs 9:8, Proverbs 9:9
What makes Folly’s invitation sound appealing, and what truth is hidden at the end?
Notice the pleasant words about stolen and secret things, then compare them with the warning about her guests.
Proverbs 9:17, Proverbs 9:18
Make, think or respond
Wisdom or Folly Reminder Card
What you’ll need
- paper or card
- pencils or pens
- coloured pencils or markers
- Bible text written out or read aloud
Try it together
- Ask each student to choose one key line from the passage, such as part of Proverbs 9:6, Proverbs 9:10, or the warning in Proverbs 9:18.
- Fold a small piece of paper or card in half.
- On the front, write a short title such as “Choose Wisdom”. Inside, copy the chosen verse or phrase carefully.
- Add a simple drawing or symbol that matches the verse, such as a path, a table, or an ear listening to correction.
- Invite students to share why they chose that line from Proverbs 9.
The card helps students remember the contrast between Wisdom’s life-giving invitation and Folly’s dangerous invitation in Proverbs 9.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, offer two or three short verse choices to copy and let them explain the difference using simple words such as “safe”, “wise”, “secret”, and “danger”.
- For older or more confident children, ask them to write one realistic example of a choice that matches Wisdom’s call to accept instruction and walk in understanding.
An optional closing prayer
You might pray: “Lord, please help us listen to wisdom, accept correction, and learn to fear you. Help us recognise choices that look attractive but lead us away from understanding. Amen.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Proverbs 9
1 Wisdom has built her house. She has carved out her seven pillars.
2 She has prepared her meat. She has mixed her wine. She has also set her table.
3 She has sent out her maidens. She cries from the highest places of the city:
4 “Whoever is simple, let him turn in here!” As for him who is void of understanding, she says to him,
5 “Come, eat some of my bread, Drink some of the wine which I have mixed!
6 Leave your simple ways, and live. Walk in the way of understanding.”
7 One who corrects a mocker invites insult. One who reproves a wicked man invites abuse.
8 Don’t reprove a scoffer, lest he hate you. Reprove a wise person, and he will love you.
9 Instruct a wise person, and he will be still wiser. Teach a righteous person, and he will increase in learning.
10 The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom. The knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
11 For by me your days will be multiplied. The years of your life will be increased.
12 If you are wise, you are wise for yourself. If you mock, you alone will bear it.
13 The foolish woman is loud, undisciplined, and knows nothing.
14 She sits at the door of her house, on a seat in the high places of the city,
15 to call to those who pass by, who go straight on their ways,
16 “Whoever is simple, let him turn in here.” As for him who is void of understanding, she says to him,
17 “Stolen water is sweet. Food eaten in secret is pleasant.”
18 But he doesn’t know that the departed spirits are there, that her guests are in the depths of Sheol.
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.