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Sirach 3: Honor and care for parents through old age
Sirach 3:1–16; Sirach 3:17–29
Sirach 3:1–16 is wisdom teaching spoken as a father’s instruction to children. It calls children to honour both father and mother, and it gives special attention to caring for parents when they grow old or become weaker. This lesson also brings together Humility accepts the limits of knowledge.
Before you teach
This passage from the Catholic additional book of Sirach is written as direct advice: “Hear me, your father, O my children”. It speaks about honouring parents in word, deed, and patient care. The sayings connect this honour with blessing, prayer, family stability, and a serious warning against dishonouring parents.
Explain the central teaching of Sirach 3: Honor and care for parents through old age, using two details from the reading. This passage teaches that honouring parents includes respectful words, actions, and patient care in their old age. This passage teaches that humility accepts what has been commanded and refuses the pride that leads judgment astray.
Welcome: Sirach 3: Honor and care for parents through old age
5 minIntroduce “Honor and care for parents through old age”, “Humility accepts the limits of knowledge” and locate Sirach 3:1–16; Sirach 3:17–29. This passage teaches that honouring parents includes respectful words, actions, and patient care in their old age. Invite each learner to name a detail or question they will listen for.
Sirach 3:1, Sirach 3:9, Sirach 3:16
Read and explain the passage
12 minHonor and care for parents through old age (Sirach 3:1–16): The passage begins with a father calling his children to hear and do what he says. The reason given is safety. Then Sirach says the Lord honours the father and confirms the mother’s authority over her sons. This gives weight to both parents, not only one of them.
Humility accepts the limits of knowledge (Sirach 3:17–29): The passage begins with everyday conduct: “go on with your business in humility”. The point is not to stop one’s work, but to carry it out humbly. It then says that the greater a person is, the more that person should humble himself. This humility is linked with favour before the Lord, and the Lord is glorified by those who are lowly.
Read the selected verses together, pausing at “Honor and care for parents through old age”, “Humility accepts the limits of knowledge”. Use the source reading below and check the explanation against the words of the passage.
Sirach 3:1, Sirach 3:2, Sirach 3:17, Sirach 3:18, Sirach 3:20
Discuss the details and their meaning
8 minUse the three questions below. Begin with “According to this passage, what are some ways honouring parents is shown?” and allow time to find the supporting verses. This passage teaches that humility accepts what has been commanded and refuses the pride that leads judgment astray. Ask learners to explain which details support their answer and to identify a question they would like to explore further.
Sirach 3:7, Sirach 3:8, Sirach 3:12, Sirach 3:13, Sirach 3:3, Sirach 3:5, Sirach 3:6, Sirach 3:14, Sirach 3:15, Sirach 3:24, Sirach 3:29
Make and respond: Wisdom comparison cards
12 minWork on “Sirach 3: Honor and care for parents through old age: Wisdom comparison cards”. Follow the materials and steps below, using “Honor and care for parents through old age”, “Humility accepts the limits of knowledge” as reading headings. Each learner should include at least two accurate details and their verse references. Share one observation from the finished sheet and explain how it connects with the central teaching.
Sirach 3:1, Sirach 3:15, Sirach 3:29
Closing: return to Humility accepts the limits of knowledge
3 minRevisit Sirach 3:17–29. Invite a learner to summarise what the group has learned about Humility accepts the limits of knowledge and another to support the summary with a verse. Give learners a moment to complete their response sheet. They can share a question or, if appropriate for the group, join the optional prayer.
Sirach 3:17, Sirach 3:24, Sirach 3:29
Questions to explore
According to this passage, what are some ways honouring parents is shown?
Look for actions and words named directly, especially serving, helping, not grieving, patience, and honouring in deed and word.
Sirach 3:7, Sirach 3:8, Sirach 3:12, Sirach 3:13
How does Sirach speak about the results of honouring parents?
List the outcomes the passage connects with honour, such as joy, prayer being heard, length of days, blessing, and being built up.
Sirach 3:3, Sirach 3:5, Sirach 3:6, Sirach 3:8, Sirach 3:14, Sirach 3:15
What contrast appears between conceit and prudence in these verses?
Compare the lines about being led astray and judgment slipping with the prudent heart understanding a proverb and the wise man desiring a listener’s ear.
Sirach 3:24, Sirach 3:29
Make, think or respond
Sirach 3: Honor and care for parents through old age: Wisdom comparison cards
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or pens
- a Bible or the source reading on this page
Try it together
- Fold a sheet into three panels or draw three columns. Label them “What the passage commends”, “What it warns against”, “The reason or outcome stated”.
- Read Sirach 3:1–16; Sirach 3:17–29. Use “Honor and care for parents through old age”, “Humility accepts the limits of knowledge” as your reading headings and add a short quotation or detail with its verse reference to each panel.
- Compare your notes with a partner. Check that every quotation is accurate and every conclusion has support in the passage.
- Write a proposed everyday example beside one teaching. Label it as your example and explain which words in the text guided it.
The finished sheet keeps the details of Sirach 3: Honor and care for parents through old age connected to their Bible references and gives the group a way to explain what they noticed.
Adapt for your group
- For learners who need more support, prepare the reading headings “Honor and care for parents through old age”, “Humility accepts the limits of knowledge” and let them match short quotations to the correct heading.
- For confident readers, compare two sections of Sirach 3:1–16; Sirach 3:17–29. Ask for a written explanation with two supporting references and one question that the text leaves open.
An optional closing prayer
“God, help us listen carefully as we read Sirach 3:1–16; Sirach 3:17–29. Help us understand what we have read, ask thoughtful questions and respond with care for others. Amen.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Sirach 3
1 Hear me, your father, O my children, and do what you hear, that you all may be safe.
2 For the Lord honors the father over the children, and has confirmed the judgment of the mother over her sons.
3 He who honors his father will make atonement for sins.
4 He who gives glory to his mother is as one who lays up treasure.
5 Whoever honors his father will have joy in his own children. He will be heard in the day of his prayer.
6 He who gives glory to his father will have length of days. He who listens to the Lord will bring rest to his mother,
7 and will serve under his parents, as to masters.
8 Honor your father in deed and word, that a blessing may come upon you from him.
9 For the blessing of the father establishes the houses of children, but the curse of the mother roots out the foundations.
10 Don’t glorify yourself in the dishonor of your father, for your father’s dishonor is no glory to you.
11 For the glory of a man is from the honor of his father, and a mother in dishonor is a reproach to her children.
12 My son, help your father in his old age, and don’t grieve him as long as he lives.
13 If he fails in understanding, have patience with him. Don’t dishonor him in your full strength.
14 For the kindness to your father will not be forgotten. Instead of sins it will be added to build you up.
15 In the day of your affliction it will be remembered for you, as fair weather upon ice, so your sins will also melt away.
16 He who forsakes his father is as a blasphemer. He who provokes his mother is cursed by the Lord.
17 My son, go on with your business in humility; so you will be loved by an acceptable man.
18 The greater you are, humble yourself the more, and you will find favor before the Lord.
20 For the power of the Lord is great, and he is glorified by those who are lowly.
21 Don’t seek things that are too hard for you, and don’t search out things that are above your strength.
22 Think about the things that have been commanded you, for you have no need of the things that are secret.
23 Don’t be overly busy in tasks that are beyond you, for more things are shown to you than men can understand.
24 For the conceit of many has led them astray. Evil opinion has caused their judgment to slip.
25 There is no light without eyes. There is no wisdom without knowledge.
26 A stubborn heart will do badly at the end. He who loves danger will perish in it.
27 A stubborn heart will be burdened with troubles. The sinner will heap sin upon sins.
28 The calamity of the proud has no healing, for a weed of wickedness has taken root in him.
29 The heart of the prudent will understand a proverb. A wise man desires the ear of a listener.
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Source passages
Some verse numbers are represented by textual notes in World English Bible Classic. The reading below follows the text printed in the main passage.