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Song of Solomon 3: The Bride’s Dream
Song of Solomon 3:1–5; Song of Solomon 3:6–11
This poem gives the words of a woman seeking the one she loves, first by night on her bed, then through the city, and finally ending with a careful charge about love. This lesson also brings together Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day.
Before you teach
In Song of Solomon 3:1–5, the speaker repeatedly seeks “him whom my soul loves” and at first does not find him. She goes through the city streets and squares, speaks to the watchmen, then finds him and brings him to her mother’s house. The passage closes by telling the daughters of Jerusalem not to stir up or awaken love “until it so desires.”
Explain the central teaching of Song of Solomon 3: The Bride’s Dream, using two details from the reading. As an application from this poem, readers can treat love as something powerful that should not be stirred up or awakened carelessly. This poetic passage presents a wedding day with images of honour, protection, splendour and gladness.
Welcome: Song of Solomon 3: The Bride’s Dream
5 minIntroduce “The Bride’s Dream”, “Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day” and locate Song of Solomon 3:1–5; Song of Solomon 3:6–11. As an application from this poem, readers can treat love as something powerful that should not be stirred up or awakened carelessly. Invite each learner to name a detail or question they will listen for.
Song of Solomon 3:1, Song of Solomon 3:3, Song of Solomon 3:5
Read and explain the passage
12 minThe Bride’s Dream (Song of Solomon 3:1–5): The poem opens, “By night on my bed, I sought him whom my soul loves.” The line is personal and intense. It is followed by the repeated words, “I sought him, but I didn’t find him,” which stress absence and longing. The repeated phrase “whom my soul loves” shows deep affection in poetic language.
Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day (Song of Solomon 3:6–11): The poem opens with a question: “Who is this?” The figure comes “from the wilderness” like “pillars of smoke”, surrounded by the scent of myrrh, frankincense and merchant spices. These are poetic images, giving a sense of notice, richness and beauty rather than reporting ordinary travel details.
Read the selected verses together, pausing at “The Bride’s Dream”, “Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day”. Use the source reading below and check the explanation against the words of the passage.
Song of Solomon 3:1, Song of Solomon 3:6
Discuss the details and their meaning
8 minUse the three questions below. Begin with “Which repeated line helps you feel the speaker’s longing most strongly?” and allow time to find the supporting verses. This poetic passage presents a wedding day with images of honour, protection, splendour and gladness. Ask learners to explain which details support their answer and to identify a question they would like to explore further.
Song of Solomon 3:1, Song of Solomon 3:2, Song of Solomon 3:3, Song of Solomon 3:4, Song of Solomon 3:11
Make and respond: Words and images response sheet
12 minWork on “Song of Solomon 3: The Bride’s Dream: Words and images response sheet”. Follow the materials and steps below, using “The Bride’s Dream”, “Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day” as reading headings. Each learner should include at least two accurate details and their verse references. Share one observation from the finished sheet and explain how it connects with the central teaching.
Song of Solomon 3:1, Song of Solomon 3:6, Song of Solomon 3:11
Closing: return to Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day
3 minRevisit Song of Solomon 3:6–11. Invite a learner to summarise what the group has learned about Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day and another to support the summary with a verse. Give learners a moment to complete their response sheet. They can share a question or, if appropriate for the group, join the optional prayer.
Song of Solomon 3:6, Song of Solomon 3:9, Song of Solomon 3:11
Questions to explore
Which repeated line helps you feel the speaker’s longing most strongly?
Look at the words repeated in both verse 1 and verse 2, and notice how the same unsuccessful search is said twice.
Song of Solomon 3:1, Song of Solomon 3:2
How does the poem trace the search from one place to another?
Follow the order of places named in the passage: the bed, the city, the streets and squares, then the meeting after the watchmen.
Song of Solomon 3:1, Song of Solomon 3:2, Song of Solomon 3:3, Song of Solomon 3:4
How does the last verse show that this is a joyful wedding scene?
Notice the invitation to go out and see, the crown, the wedding day and the gladness of his heart.
Song of Solomon 3:11
Make, think or respond
Song of Solomon 3: The Bride’s Dream: Words and images response sheet
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or pens
- a Bible or the source reading on this page
Try it together
- Fold a sheet into three panels or draw three columns. Label them “A repeated word or image”, “Its verse reference”, “What it expresses”.
- Read Song of Solomon 3:1–5; Song of Solomon 3:6–11. Use “The Bride’s Dream”, “Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day” as your reading headings and add a short quotation or detail with its verse reference to each panel.
- Compare your notes with a partner. Check that every quotation is accurate and every conclusion has support in the passage.
- Choose one image and add a short written response or a simple drawing. Explain how it connects with the passage.
The finished sheet keeps the details of Song of Solomon 3: The Bride’s Dream connected to their Bible references and gives the group a way to explain what they noticed.
Adapt for your group
- For learners who need more support, prepare the reading headings “The Bride’s Dream”, “Solomon Arrives on His Wedding Day” and let them match short quotations to the correct heading.
- For confident readers, compare two sections of Song of Solomon 3:1–5; Song of Solomon 3:6–11. Ask for a written explanation with two supporting references and one question that the text leaves open.
An optional closing prayer
“God, help us listen carefully as we read Song of Solomon 3:1–5; Song of Solomon 3:6–11. Help us understand what we have read, ask thoughtful questions and respond with care for others. Amen.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Song of Solomon 3
1 By night on my bed, I sought him whom my soul loves. I sought him, but I didn’t find him.
2 I will get up now, and go about the city; in the streets and in the squares I will seek him whom my soul loves. I sought him, but I didn’t find him.
3 The watchmen who go about the city found me; “Have you seen him whom my soul loves?”
4 I had scarcely passed from them, when I found him whom my soul loves. I held him, and would not let him go, until I had brought him into my mother’s house, into the room of her who conceived me.
5 I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, or by the hinds of the field, that you not stir up nor awaken love, until it so desires.
6 Who is this who comes up from the wilderness like pillars of smoke, perfumed with myrrh and frankincense, with all spices of the merchant?
7 Behold, it is Solomon’s carriage! Sixty mighty men are around it, of the mighty men of Israel.
8 They all handle the sword, and are expert in war. Every man has his sword on his thigh, because of fear in the night.
9 King Solomon made himself a carriage of the wood of Lebanon.
10 He made its pillars of silver, its bottom of gold, its seat of purple, the middle of it being paved with love, from the daughters of Jerusalem.
11 Go out, you daughters of Zion, and see King Solomon, with the crown with which his mother has crowned him, in the day of his weddings, in the day of the gladness of his heart.
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.