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Song of Solomon 5: The Bride and Her Beloved
Song of Solomon 5:1–16
Song of Solomon 5:1-16 is a poem of desire, loss, searching and praise. It uses rich images rather than plain description, so it helps to read it as poetry and song, noticing voices, repeated terms, emotions and comparisons.
Before you teach
In this passage, the speaking voices include the beloved man, the beloved woman, and also the friends in Song of Solomon 5:1, with the daughters of Jerusalem addressed later. The poem moves from welcome and invitation, to delayed opening, to painful searching, and then to a detailed poetic praise of the beloved’s beauty and worth.
Explain the central teaching of Song of Solomon 5: The Bride and Her Beloved, using two details from the reading. This poem expresses intense love through longing, distress and delighted praise, using carefully layered images rather than plain description.
Welcome: Song of Solomon 5: The Bride and Her Beloved
5 minIntroduce “The Bride and Her Beloved” and locate Song of Solomon 5:1–16. This poem expresses intense love through longing, distress and delighted praise, using carefully layered images rather than plain description. Invite each learner to name a detail or question they will listen for.
Song of Solomon 5:1, Song of Solomon 5:9, Song of Solomon 5:16
Read and explain the passage
12 minThe passage opens with a voice speaking of coming into a garden and enjoying myrrh, spice, honey, wine and milk. Then the friends speak and call others to eat and drink abundantly. These garden and feast images communicate delight and closeness through poetic language, not plain narrative description.
As she searches, the watchmen find her, beat her, bruise her and take away her cloak. The poem does not explain more here, but it plainly presents harm and humiliation during her search. She then asks the daughters of Jerusalem to tell her beloved that she is faint with love if they find him.
When asked what makes her beloved better than another, she answers with a long poem of praise. She describes him with images of gold, doves, spices, jewels, ivory, sapphires, marble and cedars. She concludes that he is altogether lovely, and calls him both her beloved and her friend.
Read the selected verses together, pausing at “The Bride and Her Beloved”. Use the source reading below and check the explanation against the words of the passage.
Song of Solomon 5:1, Song of Solomon 5:7, Song of Solomon 5:8, Song of Solomon 5:9, Song of Solomon 5:10, Song of Solomon 5:11, Song of Solomon 5:12, Song of Solomon 5:13, Song of Solomon 5:14, Song of Solomon 5:15, Song of Solomon 5:16
Discuss the details and their meaning
8 minUse the three questions below. Begin with “What changes between the beloved’s call and the woman’s opening of the door?” and allow time to find the supporting verses. This poem expresses intense love through longing, distress and delighted praise, using carefully layered images rather than plain description. Ask learners to explain which details support their answer and to identify a question they would like to explore further.
Song of Solomon 5:2, Song of Solomon 5:3, Song of Solomon 5:5, Song of Solomon 5:6, Song of Solomon 5:7, Song of Solomon 5:8, Song of Solomon 5:10, Song of Solomon 5:11, Song of Solomon 5:12, Song of Solomon 5:13, Song of Solomon 5:14, Song of Solomon 5:15, Song of Solomon 5:16
Make and respond: Words and images response sheet
12 minWork on “Song of Solomon 5: The Bride and Her Beloved: Words and images response sheet”. Follow the materials and steps below, using “The Bride and Her Beloved” as reading headings. Each learner should include at least two accurate details and their verse references. Share one observation from the finished sheet and explain how it connects with the central teaching.
Song of Solomon 5:1, Song of Solomon 5:9, Song of Solomon 5:16
Closing: return to The Bride and Her Beloved
3 minRevisit Song of Solomon 5:1–16. Invite a learner to summarise what the group has learned about The Bride and Her Beloved and another to support the summary with a verse. Give learners a moment to complete their response sheet. They can share a question or, if appropriate for the group, join the optional prayer.
Song of Solomon 5:1, Song of Solomon 5:9, Song of Solomon 5:16
Questions to explore
What changes between the beloved’s call and the woman’s opening of the door?
Follow the order in the poem: he knocks and calls, she hesitates, she rises to open, and then finds that he has already gone away.
Song of Solomon 5:2, Song of Solomon 5:3, Song of Solomon 5:5, Song of Solomon 5:6
How does the poem show the woman’s distress during her search?
Notice the words about not finding him, not receiving an answer, being beaten and bruised, losing her cloak, and being faint with love.
Song of Solomon 5:6, Song of Solomon 5:7, Song of Solomon 5:8
Which images are used to describe the beloved, and what effect do they create?
List the comparisons to gold, doves, spices, jewels, ivory, marble and cedars, then observe how they build a picture of beauty, worth and splendour.
Song of Solomon 5:10, Song of Solomon 5:11, Song of Solomon 5:12, Song of Solomon 5:13, Song of Solomon 5:14, Song of Solomon 5:15, Song of Solomon 5:16
Make, think or respond
Song of Solomon 5: The Bride and Her Beloved: Words and images response sheet
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or pens
- a Bible or the source reading on this page
Try it together
- Fold a sheet into three panels or draw three columns. Label them “A repeated word or image”, “Its verse reference”, “What it expresses”.
- Read Song of Solomon 5:1–16. Use “The Bride and Her Beloved” as your reading headings and add a short quotation or detail with its verse reference to each panel.
- Compare your notes with a partner. Check that every quotation is accurate and every conclusion has support in the passage.
- Choose one image and add a short written response or a simple drawing. Explain how it connects with the passage.
The finished sheet keeps the details of Song of Solomon 5: The Bride and Her Beloved connected to their Bible references and gives the group a way to explain what they noticed.
Adapt for your group
- For learners who need more support, prepare the reading headings “The Bride and Her Beloved” and let them match short quotations to the correct heading.
- For confident readers, compare two sections of Song of Solomon 5:1–16. Ask for a written explanation with two supporting references and one question that the text leaves open.
An optional closing prayer
“God, help us listen carefully as we read Song of Solomon 5:1–16. Help us understand what we have read, ask thoughtful questions and respond with care for others. Amen.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Song of Solomon 5
1 I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride. I have gathered my myrrh with my spice; I have eaten my honeycomb with my honey; I have drunk my wine with my milk. Friends Eat, friends! Drink, yes, drink abundantly, beloved. Beloved
2 I was asleep, but my heart was awake. It is the voice of my beloved who knocks: “Open to me, my sister, my love, my dove, my undefiled; for my head is filled with dew, and my hair with the dampness of the night.”
3 I have taken off my robe. Indeed, must I put it on? I have washed my feet. Indeed, must I soil them?
4 My beloved thrust his hand in through the latch opening. My heart pounded for him.
5 I rose up to open for my beloved. My hands dripped with myrrh, my fingers with liquid myrrh, on the handles of the lock.
6 I opened to my beloved; but my beloved left, and had gone away. My heart went out when he spoke. I looked for him, but I didn’t find him. I called him, but he didn’t answer.
7 The watchmen who go about the city found me. They beat me. They bruised me. The keepers of the walls took my cloak away from me.
8 I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, If you find my beloved, that you tell him that I am faint with love. Friends
9 How is your beloved better than another beloved, you fairest among women? How is your beloved better than another beloved, that you do so adjure us? Beloved
10 My beloved is white and ruddy. The best among ten thousand.
11 His head is like the purest gold. His hair is bushy, black as a raven.
12 His eyes are like doves beside the water brooks, washed with milk, mounted like jewels.
13 His cheeks are like a bed of spices with towers of perfumes. His lips are like lilies, dropping liquid myrrh.
14 His hands are like rings of gold set with beryl. His body is like ivory work overlaid with sapphires.
15 His legs are like pillars of marble set on sockets of fine gold. His appearance is like Lebanon, excellent as the cedars.
16 His mouth is sweetness; yes, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, daughters of Jerusalem.
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