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The Prayer of Jabez
1 Chronicles 4:9–10
These two verses give a brief note about Jabez inside a genealogy and then record his prayer. The passage is short, but it shows what he asked from the God of Israel and the answer he received.
Before you teach
In this source, Jabez appears in a family record. We are told one fact about how his mother named him and one fact about how he prayed. The passage does not give a longer life story, so it is best read as a short report about his name, his request, and God’s response.
Describe the central teaching of The Prayer of Jabez, using two details from the reading. This passage shows Jabez calling on the God of Israel with specific requests, and it says God granted what he asked.
Welcome: The Prayer of Jabez
4 minIntroduce “The Prayer of Jabez” and locate 1 Chronicles 4:9–10. This passage shows Jabez calling on the God of Israel with specific requests, and it says God granted what he asked. Invite each learner to name a detail or question they will listen for.
1 Chronicles 4:9, 1 Chronicles 4:10
Read and explain the passage
8 minThe passage first says, "Jabez was more honorable than his brothers." That tells us he stood out in some way, though the verse does not explain how. We should not add details that are not here. The text simply marks him out before giving the reason for his name.
Jabez "called on the God of Israel" and asked for several things. He asked to be blessed, for his border to be enlarged, and for God’s hand to be with him. These are direct requests in the prayer, showing that he speaks openly and specifically to God.
The final line is brief and clear: "God granted him that which he requested." The text does not describe how or when this happened. Its emphasis is that Jabez prayed to the God of Israel, and God answered the requests named in the verse.
Read the selected verses together, pausing at “The Prayer of Jabez”. Use the source reading below and check the explanation against the words of the passage.
1 Chronicles 4:9, 1 Chronicles 4:10
Discuss the details and their meaning
6 minUse the three questions below. Begin with “What does the passage actually say about why Jabez received attention in the genealogy?” and allow time to find the supporting verses. This passage shows Jabez calling on the God of Israel with specific requests, and it says God granted what he asked. Ask learners to explain which details support their answer and to identify a question they would like to explore further.
1 Chronicles 4:9, 1 Chronicles 4:10
Make and respond: Words and images response sheet
9 minWork on “The Prayer of Jabez: Words and images response sheet”. Follow the materials and steps below, using “The Prayer of Jabez” as reading headings. Each learner should include at least two accurate details and their verse references. Share one observation from the finished sheet and explain how it connects with the central teaching.
1 Chronicles 4:9, 1 Chronicles 4:10
Closing: return to The Prayer of Jabez
3 minRevisit 1 Chronicles 4:9–10. Invite a learner to summarise what the group has learned about The Prayer of Jabez and another to support the summary with a verse. Give learners a moment to complete their response sheet. They can share a question or, if appropriate for the group, join the optional prayer.
1 Chronicles 4:9, 1 Chronicles 4:10
Questions to explore
What does the passage actually say about why Jabez received attention in the genealogy?
Look for the exact description given before the prayer and stay with the wording of the verse rather than adding a longer story.
1 Chronicles 4:9
Which parts of Jabez’s prayer are requests for God’s action?
List each request in the order it appears: blessing, enlarged border, God’s hand, and being kept from evil so that he would not cause pain.
1 Chronicles 4:10
How do verses 9 and 10 connect the ideas of sorrow or pain?
Notice the link between his mother’s explanation of his name in verse 9 and Jabez’s request about not causing pain in verse 10.
1 Chronicles 4:9, 1 Chronicles 4:10
Make, think or respond
The Prayer of Jabez: Words and images response sheet
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or pens
- coloured pencils or crayons
Try it together
- Fold a sheet into three panels or draw three columns. Label them “A repeated word or image”, “Its verse reference”, “What it expresses”.
- Read 1 Chronicles 4:9–10. Use “The Prayer of Jabez” as your reading headings and add a short quotation or detail with its verse reference to each panel.
- Talk through your notes with an adult. Add a word, drawing or short quotation that helps you remember each part.
- Choose one image and add a short written response or a simple drawing. Explain how it connects with the passage.
The finished sheet keeps the details of The Prayer of Jabez connected to their Bible references and gives the group a way to explain what they noticed.
Adapt for your group
- For younger children, read the selected verses aloud, prepare the three panels and let them respond with drawings or a few words. Use The Prayer of Jabez as the retelling prompt.
- For older children, add verse references to the response sheet and explain a connection between The Prayer of Jabez and the final part of the reading.
An optional closing prayer
“God, help us listen carefully as we read 1 Chronicles 4:9–10. Help us understand what we have read, ask thoughtful questions and respond with care for others. Amen.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
1 Chronicles 4
9 Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother named him Jabez, saying, “Because I bore him with sorrow.”
10 Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, “Oh that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my border! May your hand be with me, and may you keep me from evil, that I may not cause pain!” God granted him that which he requested.
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.