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Tobit's Prayer in Suffering
Tobit 3:1–6
In this prayer from the Catholic additional book of Tobit, a suffering man speaks to God with grief, confession, and urgency. The passage is honest about deep pain while still calling the Lord righteous, merciful, and true.
Before you teach
Tobit says he is grieved, weeps, and prays in sorrow. In his words to the Lord, he mentions God’s righteous judgment, sin, disobedience to commandments, reproach among the nations, and a plea to be released from distress. This explanation stays within Tobit 3:1–6.
Explain the central teaching of Tobit's Prayer in Suffering, using two details from the reading. This prayer shows that a suffering person may speak openly to God about grief and guilt while still honouring God as righteous.
Welcome: Tobit's Prayer in Suffering
5 minIntroduce “Tobit's Prayer in Suffering” and locate Tobit 3:1–6. This prayer shows that a suffering person may speak openly to God about grief and guilt while still honouring God as righteous. Invite each learner to name a detail or question they will listen for.
Tobit 3:1, Tobit 3:4, Tobit 3:6
Read and explain the passage
12 minThe prayer begins with sorrow, not relief. Tobit says he was grieved, wept, and prayed. The verse does not hide pain. It shows prayer rising from distress, with tears and sadness named plainly before any request is made.
Tobit asks God to remember and look at him, and not to take vengeance for sins and ignorances. He also mentions the sins of his fathers. The prayer does not claim innocence. It joins personal need with confession before God.
Tobit says, “they disobeyed your commandments,” and speaks of plunder, captivity, death, and reproach. He says God’s judgments are many and true because “we didn’t keep your commandments” or “walk in truth.” Then he asks to be released from distress and pleads, “Don’t turn your face away from me.”
Read the selected verses together, pausing at “Tobit's Prayer in Suffering”. Use the source reading below and check the explanation against the words of the passage.
Tobit 3:1, Tobit 3:3, Tobit 3:4, Tobit 3:5, Tobit 3:6
Discuss the details and their meaning
8 minUse the three questions below. Begin with “What words does Tobit use to describe the Lord before asking for help?” and allow time to find the supporting verses. This prayer shows that a suffering person may speak openly to God about grief and guilt while still honouring God as righteous. Ask learners to explain which details support their answer and to identify a question they would like to explore further.
Tobit 3:2, Tobit 3:3, Tobit 3:5, Tobit 3:6
Make and respond: Words and images response sheet
12 minWork on “Tobit's Prayer in Suffering: Words and images response sheet”. Follow the materials and steps below, using “Tobit's Prayer in Suffering” as reading headings. Each learner should include at least two accurate details and their verse references. Share one observation from the finished sheet and explain how it connects with the central teaching.
Tobit 3:1, Tobit 3:4, Tobit 3:6
Closing: return to Tobit's Prayer in Suffering
3 minRevisit Tobit 3:1–6. Invite a learner to summarise what the group has learned about Tobit's Prayer in Suffering and another to support the summary with a verse. Give learners a moment to complete their response sheet. They can share a question or, if appropriate for the group, join the optional prayer.
Tobit 3:1, Tobit 3:4, Tobit 3:6
Questions to explore
What words does Tobit use to describe the Lord before asking for help?
List the terms he uses for God’s character, works, ways, and judgment in the prayer.
Tobit 3:2
How does Tobit speak about sin in this prayer?
Notice that he includes his own sins and ignorances, and also the sins of his fathers.
Tobit 3:3, Tobit 3:5
What requests appear at the end of the prayer?
Look for both his plea to be released from distress and his final words about God’s face.
Tobit 3:6
Make, think or respond
Tobit's Prayer in Suffering: Words and images response sheet
What you’ll need
- plain paper or card
- pencils or pens
- a Bible or the source reading on this page
Try it together
- Fold a sheet into three panels or draw three columns. Label them “A repeated word or image”, “Its verse reference”, “What it expresses”.
- Read Tobit 3:1–6. Use “Tobit's Prayer in Suffering” as your reading headings and add a short quotation or detail with its verse reference to each panel.
- Compare your notes with a partner. Check that every quotation is accurate and every conclusion has support in the passage.
- Choose one image and add a short written response or a simple drawing. Explain how it connects with the passage.
The finished sheet keeps the details of Tobit's Prayer in Suffering connected to their Bible references and gives the group a way to explain what they noticed.
Adapt for your group
- For learners who need more support, prepare the reading headings “Tobit's Prayer in Suffering” and let them match short quotations to the correct heading.
- For confident readers, compare two sections of Tobit 3:1–6. Ask for a written explanation with two supporting references and one question that the text leaves open.
An optional closing prayer
“God, help us listen carefully as we read Tobit 3:1–6. Help us understand what we have read, ask thoughtful questions and respond with care for others. Amen.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Tobit 3
1 I was grieved and wept, and prayed in sorrow, saying,
2 “O Lord, you are righteous, and all your works and all your ways are mercy and truth, and you judge true and righteous judgment forever.
3 Remember me, and look at me. Don’t take vengeance on me for my sins and my ignorances, and the sins of my fathers who sinned before you.
4 For they disobeyed your commandments. You gave us as plunder, for captivity, for death, and for a proverb of reproach to all the nations among whom we are dispersed.
5 Now your judgments are many and true, that you should deal with me according to my sins and the sins of my fathers, because we didn’t keep your commandments, for we didn’t walk in truth before you.
6 Now deal with me according to that which is pleasing in your sight. Command my spirit to be taken from me, that I may be released, and become earth. For it is more profitable for me to die rather than to live, because I have heard false reproaches, and there is much sorrow in me. Command that I be released from my distress, now, and go to the everlasting place. Don’t turn your face away from me.”
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.