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What Makes a Person Unclean

Matthew 15:1–20; Mark 7:1–15; Mark 7:17–23

Jesus was questioned about handwashing, but he used the moment to teach something deeper. In this lesson, children will see that Jesus focuses on the heart and on obeying God’s word rather than human traditions.

6–10 years30 minutes

Before you teach

In Matthew and Mark, Pharisees and scribes ask Jesus why his disciples eat without following the tradition of the elders about washing. Jesus answers by comparing their tradition with God’s commandment, then speaks to the crowd and later explains his teaching to his disciples.

Learning aim

Students will be able to explain that, in this passage, Jesus teaches that a person is defiled by evil that comes from the heart, not by eating with unwashed hands.

1

Welcome: What is the real problem?

5 min

Ask children to think about rules people follow at home or school. Explain that in this passage some religious leaders were upset because Jesus’ disciples ate bread with unwashed hands. Read the question they asked, then tell the group that Jesus answered with a much bigger lesson than handwashing. Make clear that the issue in the passage is about religious tradition, not basic hygiene.

Matthew 15:2, Mark 7:2, Mark 7:5

2

Read and explain: God’s command and human tradition

7 min

Read Matthew 15:3-9 or Mark 7:6-13. Show that Jesus did not accept a tradition when it pushed aside God’s commandment. He gives the example of honouring father and mother, then says some people used their tradition to avoid helping their parents. Explain that Jesus says lips and heart can be far apart, so outward religion alone is not enough.

Matthew 15:3, Matthew 15:4, Matthew 15:6, Matthew 15:8, Matthew 15:9, Mark 7:6, Mark 7:8, Mark 7:10, Mark 7:11, Mark 7:13

3

Discuss: Hear and understand Jesus’ warning

6 min

Read Jesus’ words to the crowd and ask children to listen for the contrast. He says what goes into the mouth does not defile, but what comes out does. Then add Matthew’s next part: the Pharisees were offended, yet Jesus warns that what the Father did not plant will be uprooted and that blind guides lead people into a pit. This shows that being offended does not make Jesus’ teaching wrong.

Matthew 15:10, Matthew 15:11, Matthew 15:12, Matthew 15:13, Matthew 15:14, Mark 7:14, Mark 7:15

4

Make and respond: Heart and mouth reminder card

7 min

Children choose a key verse or short phrase from the passage, such as ‘out of the heart’ or ‘that defiles the man’. They make a small card with a heart on one side and a mouth on the other, then write one true sentence from the passage about what Jesus teaches. Discuss one realistic example chosen by the leader from child-suitable parts of the list, such as theft, false testimony, pride or foolishness, and connect it to the heart.

Matthew 15:18, Matthew 15:19, Matthew 15:20, Mark 7:20, Mark 7:21, Mark 7:22, Mark 7:23

5

Closing: What comes from within?

5 min

Review the flow of the passage: leaders question Jesus, Jesus shows that tradition must not cancel God’s word, Jesus tells the crowd to hear and understand, and then he explains the parable to the disciples. Include Mark’s wording that food goes into the stomach and not the heart, ‘making all foods clean’. Invite each child to say in one sentence what Jesus teaches here.

Matthew 15:1, Matthew 15:6, Matthew 15:10, Matthew 15:15, Matthew 15:18, Mark 7:1, Mark 7:13, Mark 7:17, Mark 7:18, Mark 7:19, Mark 7:23

Questions to explore

Why does Jesus say the Pharisees and scribes are wrong to criticise the disciples?

Look at how Jesus compares their tradition with God’s commandment and notice that he says their tradition can make God’s word void.

Matthew 15:3, Matthew 15:6, Mark 7:8, Mark 7:9, Mark 7:13

What do Matthew 15:12-14 add after the Pharisees are offended?

Notice that Jesus does not change his message. He warns about what the Father did not plant and calls them blind guides.

Matthew 15:12, Matthew 15:13, Matthew 15:14

What does Jesus mean when he says what comes out of a person defiles them?

Use Jesus’ own explanation that evil things come from within, from the heart, while food does not go into the heart and Mark says this means all foods are clean.

Matthew 15:18, Matthew 15:19, Mark 7:19, Mark 7:20, Mark 7:21, Mark 7:23

Make, think or respond

Heart and Mouth Reminder Card

What you’ll need

  • Paper or card
  • Pencils or pens
  • Coloured pencils or markers
  • Scissors

Try it together

  1. Cut or fold paper into a small card.
  2. Draw a heart on one side and a mouth on the other.
  3. Write a short phrase from the passage, such as ‘out of the heart’ or ‘that defiles the man’.
  4. With the leader choosing child-suitable examples from the passage, add one example such as theft, false testimony, pride or foolishness.
  5. Take turns explaining how the card matches Jesus’ teaching in the passage.

The card helps children remember that Jesus says defilement comes from within, from the heart, rather than from eating with unwashed hands.

Adapt for your group

  • For younger children, read only Matthew 15:10-20 or Mark 7:14-23 aloud and give two choices for the main point: ‘dirty hands’ or ‘evil from the heart’.
  • For older children, compare Matthew 15:12-14 with Mark 7:17-19 and ask what both parts add to Jesus’ main teaching.

An optional closing prayer

You may pray: ‘Lord Jesus, please help us listen and understand. Help our words and actions show hearts that honour God.’

Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic

Matthew 15

1 Then Pharisees and scribes came to Jesus from Jerusalem, saying,

2 “Why do your disciples disobey the tradition of the elders? For they don’t wash their hands when they eat bread.”

3 He answered them, “Why do you also disobey the commandment of God because of your tradition?

4 For God commanded, ‘Honor your father and your mother,’ and, ‘He who speaks evil of father or mother, let him be put to death.’

5 But you say, ‘Whoever may tell his father or his mother, “Whatever help you might otherwise have gotten from me is a gift devoted to God,”

6 he shall not honor his father or mother.’ You have made the commandment of God void because of your tradition.

7 You hypocrites! Well did Isaiah prophesy of you, saying,

8 ‘These people draw near to me with their mouth, and honor me with their lips; but their heart is far from me.

9 And they worship me in vain, teaching as doctrine rules made by men.’ ”

10 He summoned the multitude, and said to them, “Hear, and understand.

11 That which enters into the mouth doesn’t defile the man; but that which proceeds out of the mouth, this defiles the man.”

12 Then the disciples came and said to him, “Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this saying?”

13 But he answered, “Every plant which my heavenly Father didn’t plant will be uprooted.

14 Leave them alone. They are blind guides of the blind. If the blind guide the blind, both will fall into a pit.”

15 Peter answered him, “Explain the parable to us.”

16 So Jesus said, “Do you also still not understand?

17 Don’t you understand that whatever goes into the mouth passes into the belly and then out of the body?

18 But the things which proceed out of the mouth come out of the heart, and they defile the man.

19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, sexual sins, thefts, false testimony, and blasphemies.

20 These are the things which defile the man; but to eat with unwashed hands doesn’t defile the man.”

Mark 7

1 Then the Pharisees and some of the scribes gathered together to him, having come from Jerusalem.

2 Now when they saw some of his disciples eating bread with defiled, that is unwashed, hands, they found fault.

3 (For the Pharisees and all the Jews don’t eat unless they wash their hands and forearms, holding to the tradition of the elders.

4 They don’t eat when they come from the marketplace unless they bathe themselves, and there are many other things which they have received to hold to: washings of cups, pitchers, bronze vessels, and couches.)

5 The Pharisees and the scribes asked him, “Why don’t your disciples walk according to the tradition of the elders, but eat their bread with unwashed hands?”

6 He answered them, “Well did Isaiah prophesy of you hypocrites, as it is written, ‘This people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me.

7 They worship me in vain, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’

8 “For you set aside the commandment of God, and hold tightly to the tradition of men—the washing of pitchers and cups, and you do many other such things.”

9 He said to them, “Full well do you reject the commandment of God, that you may keep your tradition.

10 For Moses said, ‘Honor your father and your mother;’ and, ‘He who speaks evil of father or mother, let him be put to death.’

11 But you say, ‘If a man tells his father or his mother, “Whatever profit you might have received from me is Corban,” ’ ” that is to say, given to God,

12 “then you no longer allow him to do anything for his father or his mother,

13 making void the word of God by your tradition which you have handed down. You do many things like this.”

14 He called all the multitude to himself and said to them, “Hear me, all of you, and understand.

15 There is nothing from outside of the man that going into him can defile him; but the things which proceed out of the man are those that defile the man.

17 When he had entered into a house away from the multitude, his disciples asked him about the parable.

18 He said to them, “Are you also without understanding? Don’t you perceive that whatever goes into the man from outside can’t defile him,

19 because it doesn’t go into his heart, but into his stomach, then into the latrine, making all foods clean?”

20 He said, “That which proceeds out of the man, that defiles the man.

21 For from within, out of the hearts of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, sexual sins, murders, thefts,

22 covetings, wickedness, deceit, lustful desires, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, and foolishness.

23 All these evil things come from within and defile the man.”

World English Bible Classic. Public domain.

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