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Longing for Her Beloved
Song of Solomon 8:1–14 is poetry about love, desire, belonging, and commitment. Its images move from public affection to private closeness, then to strong statements about love’s power, family concerns, and a final invitation.
Understanding the passage
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In these verses, the poem moves between speakers. One voice imagines open affection and embrace, then gives a warning about love’s timing. Another line pictures a woman coming from the wilderness leaning on her beloved. The passage then speaks of love’s strength, a younger sister, vineyard imagery, and a closing call to come.
Song of Solomon 8:1–14Main takeaway
This poem presents love as precious and powerful, while also treating its timing and commitment seriously.
Explore the poem and its images
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01Longing for open affectionThe speaker wishes her beloved could be greeted as freely as a brother, so public affection would not be despised.
Explanation
The speaker wishes her beloved could be greeted as freely as a brother, so public affection would not be despised. She imagines leading him into her mother’s house, offering rich drink, and resting in his embrace. These are poetic expressions of desire and closeness, not instructions for others.
02A warning about love’s timingAfter these warm images, the poem gives a clear warning to the daughters of Jerusalem not to stir up or awaken love until it so desires.
Explanation
After these warm images, the poem gives a clear warning to the daughters of Jerusalem not to stir up or awaken love until it so desires. In this passage, love is not treated lightly. The poem values both desire and proper timing.
03Leaning on the belovedVerse 5 asks who this is coming up from the wilderness, leaning on her beloved. The image suggests closeness and support.
Explanation
Verse 5 asks who this is coming up from the wilderness, leaning on her beloved. The image suggests closeness and support. The beloved then mentions the apple tree and the mother’s conceiving, labour, and bearing, tying present love to origins, birth, and family memory within the poem’s imagery.
04Love cannot be bought or drownedThe speaker asks to be set as a seal on heart and arm, showing inward and outward belonging.
Explanation
The speaker asks to be set as a seal on heart and arm, showing inward and outward belonging. Love is said to be strong as death, with fiery flashes. Many waters and floods cannot overcome it. Wealth cannot purchase it, and any attempt to buy love would be scorned.
05Sister, vineyard, and final invitationThe brothers discuss a little sister and picture her as either a wall or a door. The beloved answers, calling herself a wall and saying she found peace in his eyes.
Explanation
The brothers discuss a little sister and picture her as either a wall or a door. The beloved answers, calling herself a wall and saying she found peace in his eyes. Vineyard imagery then speaks of what belongs to Solomon and what is her own, before the poem ends with a call to hear her voice and come away.
Questions to explore
Pause, look back at the verses and talk together.
01What does this warning about love help us notice in the middle of these affectionate lines?
Verses 1–3 speak warmly about closeness, while verse 4 adds a caution not to stir up love before its proper time.
02How does verse 5 connect love with family and belonging through its images?
Notice the phrases about coming from the wilderness, leaning on the beloved, the apple tree, and the mother who conceived, laboured, and bore.
03Why might the poem compare love to a seal, death, fire, waters, and wealth?
These images in verses 6–7 show love as serious, enduring, powerful, and not something that money can buy.
Read the Bible passage
World English Bible ClassicScripture quotation · Public domain
Song of Solomon 8:1–14
1Oh that you were like my brother, who nursed from the breasts of my mother! If I found you outside, I would kiss you; yes, and no one would despise me.
2I would lead you, bringing you into the house of my mother, who would instruct me. I would have you drink spiced wine, of the juice of my pomegranate.
3His left hand would be under my head. His right hand would embrace me.
4I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up, nor awaken love, until it so desires. Friends
5Who is this who comes up from the wilderness, leaning on her beloved? Beloved Under the apple tree I awakened you. There your mother conceived you. There she was in labor and bore you.
6Set me as a seal on your heart, as a seal on your arm; for love is strong as death. Jealousy is as cruel as Sheol. Its flashes are flashes of fire, a very flame of Yah.
7Many waters can’t quench love, neither can floods drown it. If a man would give all the wealth of his house for love, he would be utterly scorned. Brothers
8We have a little sister. She has no breasts. What shall we do for our sister in the day when she is to be spoken for?
9If she is a wall, we will build on her a turret of silver. If she is a door, we will enclose her with boards of cedar. Beloved
10I am a wall, and my breasts like towers, then I was in his eyes like one who found peace.
11Solomon had a vineyard at Baal Hamon. He leased out the vineyard to keepers. Each was to bring a thousand shekels of silver for its fruit.
12My own vineyard is before me. The thousand are for you, Solomon, two hundred for those who tend its fruit. Lover
13You who dwell in the gardens, with friends in attendance, let me hear your voice! Beloved
14Come away, my beloved! Be like a gazelle or a young stag on the mountains of spices!