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Being Ready: Waiting Servants, Bridesmaids and Talents
Matthew 24:45–51; Mark 13:34–37; Luke 12:35–48; Matthew 25:1–13; Matthew 25:14–30
Jesus tells several parables about waiting servants, prepared bridesmaids, and entrusted money. Together they ask what people should be doing while waiting for the master or bridegroom, especially when the time of return is unknown.
Before you teach
Across these passages, Jesus speaks of a lord or bridegroom who is away and later returns unexpectedly. Mark shows servants each given work and a command to watch. Luke includes Peter asking who the parable is for, followed by teaching about faithful stewardship and greater responsibility. Matthew adds the bridesmaids and the servants entrusted with talents.
Students will explain how each parable shows readiness or faithfulness from its own details and identify the serious consequences for failing to be ready.
Welcome: What counts as readiness?
6 minBegin by asking students to name situations where being ready matters because timing is uncertain. Then introduce the passages: Jesus uses parables about servants, a doorkeeper, bridesmaids, and entrusted money. Tell students they will trace what readiness looks like in each story and how the passages connect waiting with faithful action rather than time-guessing.
Mark 13:34, Mark 13:35, Mark 13:37, Luke 12:40, Matthew 25:13
Read and explain: Watching servants in Mark and Luke
8 minRead Mark 13:34-37 and Luke 12:35-40 aloud. Ask students to list the images Jesus uses: each servant has work, the doorkeeper must keep watch, lamps stay burning, and the door opens immediately. Explain that the command is to watch and be ready because the lord comes suddenly and at an unexpected hour.
Mark 13:34, Mark 13:35, Mark 13:36, Mark 13:37, Luke 12:35, Luke 12:36, Luke 12:40
Discuss: Stewardship, delay, and responsibility
9 minRead Luke 12:41-48 and Matthew 24:45-51. Notice Peter’s question, then compare the faithful servant with the servant who uses the delay as an excuse for cruelty and self-indulgence. Draw attention to the steward’s task of giving food at the right time and to the statement that greater trust brings greater accountability.
Luke 12:41, Luke 12:42, Luke 12:43, Luke 12:45, Luke 12:46, Luke 12:48, Matthew 24:45, Matthew 24:46, Matthew 24:48, Matthew 24:49, Matthew 24:50, Matthew 24:51
Analyse and respond: Bridesmaids and talents compared
11 minRead Matthew 25:1-13 and Matthew 25:14-30. In pairs, have students compare what readiness looks like in each parable. In the bridesmaids parable, the difference is preparation before the cry at midnight. In the talents parable, the difference is what servants do with what was entrusted to them while the lord is away.
Matthew 25:3, Matthew 25:4, Matthew 25:6, Matthew 25:10, Matthew 25:13, Matthew 25:14, Matthew 25:15, Matthew 25:16, Matthew 25:17, Matthew 25:18, Matthew 25:19, Matthew 25:21, Matthew 25:23, Matthew 25:27, Matthew 25:30
Closing: Main teaching and serious consequences
6 minFinish by asking students to state the main teaching of each parable in one sentence. Keep the ending sober and text-based: these parables do not only praise watchfulness and faithfulness, they also describe severe consequences for the unfaithful, unprepared, and unprofitable servant when the lord comes unexpectedly and settles accounts.
Matthew 24:50, Matthew 24:51, Luke 12:46, Luke 12:47, Luke 12:48, Matthew 25:12, Matthew 25:13, Matthew 25:19, Matthew 25:30
Questions to explore
In Luke 12 and Matthew 24, what is the faithful servant actually doing when the lord comes?
Guide students to answer from the text that the faithful servant is giving the household their food at the right time and is found doing that work when the lord returns.
Luke 12:42, Luke 12:43, Matthew 24:45, Matthew 24:46
In the bridesmaids parable, what detail shows the difference between being present and being ready?
Help students notice that all ten went out and all slept, but only the wise had taken oil with their lamps, so those who were ready went in when the bridegroom came.
Matthew 25:3, Matthew 25:4, Matthew 25:5, Matthew 25:10
In the talents parable, why is the third servant judged differently from the first two?
Students should point to his action in hiding the talent and the lord’s reply that he should at least have put the money with the bankers instead of doing nothing with what was entrusted to him.
Matthew 25:18, Matthew 25:24, Matthew 25:25, Matthew 25:26, Matthew 25:27
Make, think or respond
Parable Comparison Board
What you’ll need
- paper or card
- pens or markers
- Bible text copies or notebooks
- sticky notes
Try it together
- Divide the page into three columns titled Waiting Servants, Bridesmaids, and Talents.
- In small groups, students write short details from each parable that show readiness or faithfulness and place them in the correct column.
- Add a second row for details that show failure, unpreparedness, or unfaithfulness in each parable.
- As a class, compare the columns and write one summary sentence for each parable using only its own details.
- Finish by identifying one repeated idea that appears across all three columns.
This task helps students compare how each parable presents readiness and faithfulness through its own images, actions, and outcomes.
Adapt for your group
- For students needing more support, pre-select a smaller set of verses from each parable and provide the column headings plus starter phrases such as “ready means...” and “unfaithful means...”.
- For advanced students, ask them to distinguish carefully between details shared across the parables and details unique to one passage, especially responsibility in Luke 12:48 and entrusted goods in Matthew 25:14-15.
An optional closing prayer
“Lord, help us listen carefully to Jesus’ words, to be watchful and faithful, and to take seriously what you entrust to us.”
Read the Bible passage World English Bible Classic
Matthew 24
45 “Who then is the faithful and wise servant, whom his lord has set over his household, to give them their food in due season?
46 Blessed is that servant whom his lord finds doing so when he comes.
47 Most certainly I tell you that he will set him over all that he has.
48 But if that evil servant should say in his heart, ‘My lord is delaying his coming,’
49 and begins to beat his fellow servants, and eat and drink with the drunkards,
50 the lord of that servant will come in a day when he doesn’t expect it and in an hour when he doesn’t know it,
51 and will cut him in pieces and appoint his portion with the hypocrites. That is where the weeping and grinding of teeth will be.
Mark 13
34 “It is like a man traveling to another country, having left his house and given authority to his servants, and to each one his work, and also commanded the doorkeeper to keep watch.
35 Watch therefore, for you don’t know when the lord of the house is coming—whether at evening, or at midnight, or when the rooster crows, or in the morning;
36 lest, coming suddenly, he might find you sleeping.
37 What I tell you, I tell all: Watch!”
Luke 12
35 “Let your waist be dressed and your lamps burning.
36 Be like men watching for their lord when he returns from the wedding feast, that when he comes and knocks, they may immediately open to him.
37 Blessed are those servants whom the lord will find watching when he comes. Most certainly I tell you that he will dress himself, make them recline, and will come and serve them.
38 They will be blessed if he comes in the second or third watch and finds them so.
39 But know this, that if the master of the house had known in what hour the thief was coming, he would have watched and not allowed his house to be broken into.
40 Therefore be ready also, for the Son of Man is coming in an hour that you don’t expect him.”
41 Peter said to him, “Lord, are you telling this parable to us, or to everybody?”
42 The Lord said, “Who then is the faithful and wise steward, whom his lord will set over his household, to give them their portion of food at the right times?
43 Blessed is that servant whom his lord will find doing so when he comes.
44 Truly I tell you that he will set him over all that he has.
45 But if that servant says in his heart, ‘My lord delays his coming,’ and begins to beat the menservants and the maidservants, and to eat and drink and to be drunken,
46 then the lord of that servant will come in a day when he isn’t expecting him and in an hour that he doesn’t know, and will cut him in two, and place his portion with the unfaithful.
47 That servant who knew his lord’s will, and didn’t prepare nor do what he wanted, will be beaten with many stripes,
48 but he who didn’t know, and did things worthy of stripes, will be beaten with few stripes. To whomever much is given, of him will much be required; and to whom much was entrusted, of him more will be asked.
Matthew 25
1 “Then the Kingdom of Heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom.
2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise.
3 Those who were foolish, when they took their lamps, took no oil with them,
4 but the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.
5 Now while the bridegroom delayed, they all slumbered and slept.
6 But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Behold! The bridegroom is coming! Come out to meet him!’
7 Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps.
8 The foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’
9 But the wise answered, saying, ‘What if there isn’t enough for us and you? You go rather to those who sell, and buy for yourselves.’
10 While they went away to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding feast, and the door was shut.
11 Afterward the other virgins also came, saying, ‘Lord, Lord, open to us.’
12 But he answered, ‘Most certainly I tell you, I don’t know you.’
13 Watch therefore, for you don’t know the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming.
14 “For it is like a man going into another country, who called his own servants and entrusted his goods to them.
15 To one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to each according to his own ability. Then he went on his journey.
16 Immediately he who received the five talents went and traded with them, and made another five talents.
17 In the same way, he also who got the two gained another two.
18 But he who received the one talent went away and dug in the earth and hid his lord’s money.
19 “Now after a long time the lord of those servants came, and settled accounts with them.
20 He who received the five talents came and brought another five talents, saying, ‘Lord, you delivered to me five talents. Behold, I have gained another five talents in addition to them.’
21 “His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a few things, I will set you over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.’
22 “He also who got the two talents came and said, ‘Lord, you delivered to me two talents. Behold, I have gained another two talents in addition to them.’
23 “His lord said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a few things. I will set you over many things. Enter into the joy of your lord.’
24 “He also who had received the one talent came and said, ‘Lord, I knew you that you are a hard man, reaping where you didn’t sow, and gathering where you didn’t scatter.
25 I was afraid, and went away and hid your talent in the earth. Behold, you have what is yours.’
26 “But his lord answered him, ‘You wicked and slothful servant. You knew that I reap where I didn’t sow, and gather where I didn’t scatter.
27 You ought therefore to have deposited my money with the bankers, and at my coming I should have received back my own with interest.
28 Take away therefore the talent from him and give it to him who has the ten talents.
29 For to everyone who has will be given, and he will have abundance, but from him who doesn’t have, even that which he has will be taken away.
30 Throw out the unprofitable servant into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’
World English Bible Classic. Public domain.
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